When did you move to forward facing car seat?

Just a question regarding this, Leo is 5 and a half months, and 22lb and there is a weight limit to my current car seat. Can he exceed this if he doesnt reach 9 months under the weight limit?

I don't think you can exceed the weight limit rear facing as the car seats have not been deemed safe for use above that weight.

To the OP have you thought about getting a combi seat we have the britax first class plus and he loves it now as he is much higher up that in his infant carrier and can see out of all the windows, maybe you could get one of these then when he is older or more than 29lbs you can turn the seat around to face forward until they are 18kgs approx. 4 years.

Sorry are you saying we should keep them rf till 4 years old ? when my daughter was 4 she was in a seat that was like a booster with a seat on it that was her third seat and she just uses the booster now . there would be no way she would face the back at 4 she would get quite lonley ? god she started school at 4 ! i cant see that my self , news to me i think i should have a read up :cry:

No hun I'm saying with a combi seat like britax first class you can RF them til 13kg or minimum 9kg after this you can turn the seat around to forward facing and use it forward facing until 18kg which is about 4 years old. :flower:
 
Happier or safer? Thats not really a hard decision surely?

In my first post, I explained how it's not safer for me personally - I nearly crashed several times because I was so distracted/distressed by Teddy in his seat. Weighing up the probabilities, this is safer for us. I don't argue that if you can manage it ERF isn't safer, but it's absolutely not an option for me and Teddy. If I felt like torturing him to prove a point, I'd put him in his cabriofix (which he doesn't fit into anymore) and film him howling and vomiting. Or perhaps you'd like to see the scars on his feet from where he rubbed blisters kicking and screaming? There's a difference between unhappy and distressed.
 
Just a question regarding this, Leo is 5 and a half months, and 22lb and there is a weight limit to my current car seat. Can he exceed this if he doesnt reach 9 months under the weight limit?

No, you can't exceed the limit. You would need to get another car seat to keep LO rear facing. ie a group 0+1 car seat. My LO was far too big for his first car seat, so we got a 0+1 seat which is far better. I'm going to keep him rear facing as long as possible xx
 
My daughter is almost 7 months and is about to exceed the weight allowance for her infant carrier and I've looked into ERF and while I like the idea reading the studies I've read she will have to go FF if I can't find anywhere in this area that stocks ERF. I want whichever car seat I buy to be properly fitted as I believe a FF carseat that is well fitted is safer than an ERF that fits poorly.

If all the evidence suggests ERF is safer then why on earth are they not easier to buy in the uk?!
 
If all the evidence suggests ERF is safer then why on earth are they not easier to buy in the uk?!

Catch 22 situation. The current law means there is no legal requirement which would cause ERF seats to HAVE to be widely available = no profit for the manufacturers / retailers to provide the seats in the UK = not a lot of awareness of ERF = little pressure on the Govt to change the law = back to the beginning.

I have to say though, it's getting a heck of a lot easier than it was to find them in the UK. When I first looked into ERF, if you were in my area and wanted anything other than a Recaro Polaric, you had to import from Sweden. Now you can get the Britax Multi-Tech from Volvo, our local pram centre stocks at least 3 ERF seats, the Milton Keynes In Car Safety Centre range is growing all the time... It's much better than it was.

I do think it's worth keeping in mind that ERF isn't going to be the right option for everyone. A "one size fits all" attitude to parenting choices is helpful to no-one, and only causes arguments. Let's keep it friendly :)
 
My youngest Lo went FF when she was just over 6 months but she weighed over the reccomended weight and her head was nearly above the seat, she has always been very big for her age. Im pretty sure my eldest daughter was 9 months as she was smaller in weight.

There is nothing wrong with FF as long as you follow the guidelines.

does you LO cry all the time in the car? there is a thing called 'motion sickness' (i get this)

(copied and paste from some info i found for you)

If you've ever been sick to your stomach while riding in a car, train, airplane, or boat, you know exactly what motion sickness feels like. It's no fun.

To understand motion sickness, it helps to understand a few parts of your body and how they affect the way you feel movement:

•Inner ears: Liquid in the semicircular canals of the inner ear allows you to sense if you're moving, and, if you are, which way you're moving — up, down, side to side, round and round, forward, or backward.
•Eyes: What you see also lets your body know whether you're moving and in which direction.
•Skin receptors: These receptors tell your brain which parts of your body are touching the ground.
•Muscles and joint sensory receptors: These sensing receptors tell your brain if you're moving your muscles and which position your body is in.
The brain gets an instant report from these different parts of your body and tries to put together a total picture about what you are doing just at that moment. But if any of the pieces of this picture don't match, you can get motion sickness.

For example, if you're riding in a car and reading a book, your inner ears and skin receptors will detect that you are moving forward. However, your eyes are looking at a book that isn't moving, and your muscle receptors are telling your brain that you're sitting still. So the brain gets a little confused. Things may begin to feel a little scrambled inside your head at that point.

When this happens, you might feel really tired, dizzy, or sick to your stomach. Sometimes you might even throw up. And if you're feeling scared or anxious, your motion sickness might get even worse.

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ListenAvoiding Motion SicknessTo avoid motion sickness:

Put your best face forward. Always sit facing forward. Don't face backward in your seat or sit in a seat that faces backward. Sitting forward helps keep the motion sensed by your eyes and ears the same.

like i said i get this and have done since a child and it isnt pleasent, cant read in a moving vehicle and cant sit facing the wrong direction in any vehicle..... i'm not saying your LO has this but if your LO is upset all the time they are in a car it COULD be a reason.
 
Every one has missed the able to sit unaided for 30-40 mins out.
 
Sorry, Gabriel is itty, bitty. I've only just moved him from RF infant seat to RF combo seat at 18 months. I have no idea when he'll be big enough to go FF.
 
My LO is rear facing and HATES it, just wanted to share your pain as every car journey we have is with a screaming baby :dohh:
 
My daughter is almost 7 months and is about to exceed the weight allowance for her infant carrier and I've looked into ERF and while I like the idea reading the studies I've read she will have to go FF if I can't find anywhere in this area that stocks ERF. I want whichever car seat I buy to be properly fitted as I believe a FF carseat that is well fitted is safer than an ERF that fits poorly.

If all the evidence suggests ERF is safer then why on earth are they not easier to buy in the uk?!

You can buy a combi seat (stage 0+&1) which are very widely available, it would mean you can rear face for much longer as the seats are much bigger and spacious than infant carriers. You then wouldn't need to change the seat for forward facing :flow:
 
My daughter is almost 7 months and is about to exceed the weight allowance for her infant carrier and I've looked into ERF and while I like the idea reading the studies I've read she will have to go FF if I can't find anywhere in this area that stocks ERF. I want whichever car seat I buy to be properly fitted as I believe a FF carseat that is well fitted is safer than an ERF that fits poorly.

If all the evidence suggests ERF is safer then why on earth are they not easier to buy in the uk?!

You can buy a combi seat (stage 0+&1) which are very widely available, it would mean you can rear face for much longer as the seats are much bigger and spacious than infant carriers. You then wouldn't need to change the seat for forward facing :flow:

This sounds ideal I think the position of the seat and lack of view is what he hates. He loves to sit upright and can sit for an hour plus unaided. I think he is uncomfortable in the infant carrier. The FF seats from birth are probably this combi I think I will look into it as he is almost 20lbs. For those of you who know what I am going through, it is really difficult. We can't go anywhere as he just inconsolable. Obviously safety is my priority and he's OK on short trips. But I think FF would be better for hima s he will be sitting in a more natural position, able to see me and out the window. He is into everything at the min and needs to know Im nearby, preferably in sight so I think he would love FF. Plus his car seat is getting too small for him. I will look into the combi seat thanks for the advice :flower:
 
My daughter is almost 7 months and is about to exceed the weight allowance for her infant carrier and I've looked into ERF and while I like the idea reading the studies I've read she will have to go FF if I can't find anywhere in this area that stocks ERF. I want whichever car seat I buy to be properly fitted as I believe a FF carseat that is well fitted is safer than an ERF that fits poorly.

If all the evidence suggests ERF is safer then why on earth are they not easier to buy in the uk?!

Just in case you haven't seen, there is a list of ERF stockists here:
https://rearfacing.co.uk/buyersguide.php
They are gradually becoming easier to find, but I agree they should be made widely available!
:flower:
 

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