When did you or have you started dating?

[manda22]

I know I'm not ready for dating but a girl can dream right? Is there ever a good time to resume dating? I've been feeling lonely in that department. I haven't felt loved by a significant other for about a year. Bd and I broke up recently and I feel like I'm ready to see what's out there. I'm 21 and he's the only man I've been with. I love my daughter and she will always come first. But I still am curious.

 

[emalou90]

well i broke up with FOB aug 10 and started seeing a long term friend in the september 10...
loads of people judged me but it was over with FOB and i wasnt going back so i was wondering why i should wait and waste more of my life.

we got together i the October and have been living together since Feb 11

good luck with everything, do what you think is right xxxxx

 

[moomin_troll]

i dont think theres ever a perfect time to start dating again. im a single mum due to different reasons so i cant see myself dating again, or for many years yet.

if u can get a baby sitter then why not go out once a month on a night out with ur mates and just have fun and see what happens

 

[emalou90]

i dont think theres ever a perfect time to start dating again. im a single mum due to different reasons so i cant see myself dating again, or for many years yet.

am i right in thinking you're the lady who's partner passed away?
I do hope you're doing okay sweet

 

[moomin_troll]

i dont think theres ever a perfect time to start dating again. im a single mum due to different reasons so i cant see myself dating again, or for many years yet.

am i right in thinking you're the lady who's partner passed away?
I do hope you're doing okay sweet

yes im that lady, im doing good thanks.

i have been missing male attention for sure, so my plan is to wait till im 30 and start using toy boys hahaha

 

[expecting09]

Only you will know when you are ready! I started dating again a year after LO was born (not that it went very far )

 

[emalou90]

i dont think theres ever a perfect time to start dating again. im a single mum due to different reasons so i cant see myself dating again, or for many years yet.

am i right in thinking you're the lady who's partner passed away?
I do hope you're doing okay sweet

yes im that lady, im doing good thanks.

i have been missing male attention for sure, so my plan is to wait till im 30 and start using toy boys hahaha

HAHAHA!
bless you, good on you!

 

[jocelynmarie]

I've been thinking about this a lot lately. I broke up with FOB before I even knew I was pregnant, so its been a long 7 months already!!! I can't imagine dating though... obviously right now I wouldn't, but I can't imagine wanting to give up time with my little man to spend time with a big boy. (just a little bitter about men... lol)

I miss affection though... and I'm gonna come right out and say it... I REALLY miss sex!!

 

[Kacie]

I left FOB in Aug2010. I didn't even consider the prospect of men for months as he hurt me pretty bad and DD was only 6 wks at the time. But then in the November/December I wanted to see if I could talk to men to start building up some confidence (FOB had been my only relationship). So I went on a couple of dating sites.. didn't expect anything to come of it, just to have a few friendly email exchanges but I signed up to one site and met a guy on there straight away lol. Started texting in December 2010 and then met up.. We're still together now and it's going strong He knows that DD is my first priority and always will be and he admires that and respects it xx

You never know what's around the corner..

 

[teal]

I was single from when I was 4 weeks pregnant and I didn't meet someone new until LO was 10 months old I wasn't really interested in dating but I was introduced to a really nice guy and just clicked

 

[Boomerslady]

Me and my ex split in April/May time and because he has Ben at weekends I've been going out a lot more!! I've met a few guys on nights out but they haven't gone any further than a cheeky snog!! I did meet a guy who was an old ex of an old friend who i knew years ago and we went on a date but it didn't work out....however there's great sexual chemistry and I feel very comfortable with him so we slept together a couple of weeks ago!! We both agree it's purely on a friends basis!!

If I met the right guy and we clicked and starting dating then that'd be great, but I doubt where I live I'll meet any decent guys!!

 

[KNWilson]

I have been single before finding out about my BFP. Haven't really even thought about dating or seeing anyone just figured I would focus on myself and baby for now. But just last week I had a guy message me on Facebook (a friend of a friend) and we have been chatting here and there and so far things are going great!! But the twist to it all is he lives in Indiana and I live in Tennessee. But we'll see we are just getting to know each other for now and plan on meeting up when I go to visit my friend probably here in the next couple of months. I know one thing for sure this guy seems to blow FOB out of the water which is a huge plus.

 

[littlekitten8]

I split with FOB when James was 3 months old, got with my ex when he was 6 months old, split with him in November and am only just starting to date again now. Had a date with a guy on Tuesday and we are going out on Monday for dinner