lusterleaf
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I guess I am just not sure what to say when someone says "I'm sorry" when they learn of DS' ASD diagnosis. For example when DS was first diagnosed, my FIL told a family friend, and when this family friend saw us he said "Sorry about DS". I didn't know what to say back.
Now recently, I joined a bunch of Autism support groups on Facebook and occasionally will post from time to time about my experiences with DS. Unbeknownst to me, my friends could read what I post on other groups even if they're not part of them. Well today I get a message from my DH's aunt that lives in Florida, "I had no clue up until last week that there was something wrong with your DS and that he was having issues, then I saw your posts. I just wanted to let you know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers"... again not sure how to respond with that. It almost feels like they're acting as if its a disease or something. I just replied with "thank you" and she responded "you're welcome" but I just thought this was awkward.
Have you ever dealt with this situation where someone says "i'm sorry"?
Now recently, I joined a bunch of Autism support groups on Facebook and occasionally will post from time to time about my experiences with DS. Unbeknownst to me, my friends could read what I post on other groups even if they're not part of them. Well today I get a message from my DH's aunt that lives in Florida, "I had no clue up until last week that there was something wrong with your DS and that he was having issues, then I saw your posts. I just wanted to let you know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers"... again not sure how to respond with that. It almost feels like they're acting as if its a disease or something. I just replied with "thank you" and she responded "you're welcome" but I just thought this was awkward.
Have you ever dealt with this situation where someone says "i'm sorry"?