Congratulations!!! I think when you tell is completely your choice. I have friends who tell when they get BFP. I have friends who tell when they find the sex! Most of my friends have told between 12-14 weeks. I also have friends who wait till 8 weeks to tell or even 16! It's ALL good! With all 3 of my pregnancies, I've told my side of the family right away. My partner's relatives have to wait until when we decide to tell our friends because they choose not to be close with us or support us in anything we do. With our first, we told everyone at 6 weeks. With my second, at 12 1/2 weeks because someone blabbed - I was gonna wait till 14 weeks! With our third, at almost 9 weeks! Strange, right? I just wait until I feel comfortable and confident with the pregnancy, and then I tell out of excitement! With my second, I was terrified, as you can tell by how long I waited. But, I didn't think it was okay to get pregnant so close together. Now, I know better. Congratulations, and good luck with your decisions!!