When To Just Let Go!!!!!

[jacky24]

The heading says it all, at what point do I just say enough is enough, pull yourself together, get your act together and move on. No crying, screaming, moaning, fitting and smoking will bring CJ back, no matter how much you would give the world or even sell your soul to the devil.... CJ is gone...

At what point will i stop feeling sorry for myself and the situations i find myself in today with TTC 13months now, and 66pounds overweight....

When will i just be able to let go??????

And go on with my life and be with my amazing OH...

 

[Uvlollypop]

if i knew the answer id tell you hun...

 

[LauraAlicia]

I suppose the grieving process takes a while and maybe it will get better? sorry i can't give a more definite answer hun

 

[jacky24]

if i knew the answer id tell you hun...

Thanks molly, i wish there was this switch we could just switch off and go on with our lives wouldn't that just be the biggest relieve on earth.

A forget switch, a not cry switch... crap i will have a handbag full of switches....

 

[todteach]

I'm giving you huge . Take care of yourself Jacky. p.s. you're beautiful.

 

[Uvlollypop]

yeah a 'i will not cry' switch would be nice..

 

[hopeful4baby]

Hi Jacky, I've had 2 very early m/c, but not in million years can I imagine your pain of losing a baby at full term. After all that time waiting, getting ready for his arrival... I'm so sorry and I wish I could say something that it would ease your grief. I don't think anyone can ever get over anything like this. He'll always be your first born child. The child you have loved and always will. I've got friends who have two little boys now, but before that they lost a girl almost at full term. They are one of the most appreciative and amazing parents I know. Once you get your healthy baby, things will become easier, although it will never replace him. Unfortunately, we just have to learn to live with our losses. Only time will show how long it will take. I hope my post isn't too tough, I wish I could help. I wish you will hold your next baby in your arms very soon!!!