Sarah69
TTC for 5 years
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Hi all
I haven't been on here for a little while. I don't want to sound negative but seriously need to think about whether or now we should carry on TTC.
Been TTC for over 5 years with a mc 4 years ago. We have tried Clomid & Tamoxifen. We have been told we have "unexplained infertility" as all our tests came back fine. We chose not to have fertility treatment such as IVF etc.
I turned 42 in May and my DH was 46 in June. I have been avoiding thinking about it as it makes me feel utterly gutted but I really have to think long and hard about whether we should carry on TTC or if we should set a date to stop and try to move on. My DH says he will support me in which ever decision we make. It just seems so final and I keep thinking, what if we'd tried a little longer? But we aren't getting any younger and it is taking it's toll on me emotionally. I would be devasted knowing we will never have a child but is it worth all this trauma?
So, any words of wisdom would be much appreciated. I'm not asking anyone to make this decision for me, just for some advice.
Thank you
I haven't been on here for a little while. I don't want to sound negative but seriously need to think about whether or now we should carry on TTC.
Been TTC for over 5 years with a mc 4 years ago. We have tried Clomid & Tamoxifen. We have been told we have "unexplained infertility" as all our tests came back fine. We chose not to have fertility treatment such as IVF etc.
I turned 42 in May and my DH was 46 in June. I have been avoiding thinking about it as it makes me feel utterly gutted but I really have to think long and hard about whether we should carry on TTC or if we should set a date to stop and try to move on. My DH says he will support me in which ever decision we make. It just seems so final and I keep thinking, what if we'd tried a little longer? But we aren't getting any younger and it is taking it's toll on me emotionally. I would be devasted knowing we will never have a child but is it worth all this trauma?
So, any words of wisdom would be much appreciated. I'm not asking anyone to make this decision for me, just for some advice.
Thank you