Since we had to put the side of La's cot back on she has struggled to go to sleep by herself in the evening. When the side was off she used to crawl about her cot and the edge of my bed until she got tired out and fell asleep. Since the side went on she won't do it in her cot as she bangs her head, plus her natural impulse seems to be to pull herself up to standing using the bars and she wakes up fully and cries. Laying her down just makes her more and more upset.
So now she has her bath and gets in her pjs, plays quietly in the lounge for a bit then goes to the bedroom. I try to feed her but she climbs all over the place and mucks about and takes ages and ages to take any milk. She will twist and turn whilst on the boob and then crawl off laughing, then pull herself up the outside of her cot and bang the rungs etc. It can take an hour to get a decent amount of milk in her. Then she clambers about some more and usually eventually flops back and falls asleep. She won't do this in her cot, she just pulls herself up and starts to moan and cry.
Sometimes I can lay her in her cot, put a blanket on her and she pulls it over her head a few times then goes to sleep. It's magic when I can but it isn't often and it's usually after an hour or so of mucking about. I don't have a problem with bedtime taking a while, it used to take 45+ minutes to give her a good long breastfeed so I don't mind but this is just getting silly.
When she wakes in the night (a lot) the only way she will go back to sleep is to feed her... The other night when she was ill she wouldn't feed but would snuggle and go back off but normally she needs boob. But recently she mucks about in the night too and will want to crawl about and play for up to an hour and I'm getting so tired.
The only thing anyone seems to be able to recommend is CC/CIO which I know I couldn't stick at, she cries and cries and starts to choke and gag if she's upset for a long time. I can't bear to hear her cry like that.
The main problem is she just seems so tired lately - she's cranky and irritable and she never ever used to be like that. She won't have 2 naps in the day any more, just one, and it has got shorter (used to be 1.5-2 hours, now maybe it lasts an hour). I've tried putting her to bed much earlier (by 6pm) but she then just wakes at 5am for the day after a wakeful night.
Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't think anyone will, because when it's this complicated the easiest option is CC isn't it? But I don't think I can do it.
So now she has her bath and gets in her pjs, plays quietly in the lounge for a bit then goes to the bedroom. I try to feed her but she climbs all over the place and mucks about and takes ages and ages to take any milk. She will twist and turn whilst on the boob and then crawl off laughing, then pull herself up the outside of her cot and bang the rungs etc. It can take an hour to get a decent amount of milk in her. Then she clambers about some more and usually eventually flops back and falls asleep. She won't do this in her cot, she just pulls herself up and starts to moan and cry.
Sometimes I can lay her in her cot, put a blanket on her and she pulls it over her head a few times then goes to sleep. It's magic when I can but it isn't often and it's usually after an hour or so of mucking about. I don't have a problem with bedtime taking a while, it used to take 45+ minutes to give her a good long breastfeed so I don't mind but this is just getting silly.
When she wakes in the night (a lot) the only way she will go back to sleep is to feed her... The other night when she was ill she wouldn't feed but would snuggle and go back off but normally she needs boob. But recently she mucks about in the night too and will want to crawl about and play for up to an hour and I'm getting so tired.
The only thing anyone seems to be able to recommend is CC/CIO which I know I couldn't stick at, she cries and cries and starts to choke and gag if she's upset for a long time. I can't bear to hear her cry like that.
The main problem is she just seems so tired lately - she's cranky and irritable and she never ever used to be like that. She won't have 2 naps in the day any more, just one, and it has got shorter (used to be 1.5-2 hours, now maybe it lasts an hour). I've tried putting her to bed much earlier (by 6pm) but she then just wakes at 5am for the day after a wakeful night.
Does anyone have any suggestions? I don't think anyone will, because when it's this complicated the easiest option is CC isn't it? But I don't think I can do it.