When will I feel better?

[VickyLou]

Im 14+2 today. People have told me the second trimester is great and you start to feel normal again. This hasn't happened for me yet, if anything I'm feeling worse than the last 12 weeks.
I'm so tired all day but struggling to get a decent sleep at night. Having some horrible pregnancy dreams. The nausea feeling has come back and I feel very low. I keep thinking something's wrong with baby I'm not sure I can wait 7 weeks to see it again.

I feel guilty cause I should be happy, I've wanted this for so long, I should be grateful instead of moaning

 

[EmzyJA]

Aw bless ya. I'm afraid to say that I still get very tired but I do feel better than I did 5 weeks or so ago. Hopefully soon some of the symptoms will ease off for you a bit. Don't be surprised if they creep back every once in a while though

 

[VickyLou]

I don't hold out much hope of feeling better then lol. Again I should just be grateful, after being told I couldn't have children I should just put up with it.

Thank you for your reply x

 

[EmzyJA]

Aw don't be hard on yourself, it's not easy!!! Feeling like crap everyday does wear on you a bit. You should hopefully get some relief soon. But then along comes other things such as heartburn, leaky boobs and baby kicking in uncomfortable places. All part of the joys of pregnancy. I know with my first I couldn't believe it wasn't quite as 'wonderful' as I had imagined at times. But you do get moments that make it all worthwhile, such as feeling those kicks, seeing your baby at scans, hearing their precious little heartbeat, and of course the end result of having your baby in your arms. Trust me there's no better feeling. Try to make the most of pregnancy as I found after having my daughter i missed my bump and the kicks, but having her there was just amazing.

 

[Pinkie 33]

Hey, sorry you aren't feeling so good but you're not on your own, I'm with you! Still very tired with heaving and indigestion constant throughout the day. I'm also desperate for next scan but I keep thinking that I wouldn't feel so rubbish if there was anything wrong! Try and enjoy it, I think we will feel better in time X

 

[MummyToAmberx]

Its all lies! (Sorry)

I never got pregnancy glow before, my worse MS period with #1 was in 2nd tri.

Bad headaches/dizziness and spd kicked in 2nd tri with baby #2

well this baby i never know what the day will bring until i get up and start moving, my HG comes and goes every week.

 

[VickyLou]

Thanks ladies. Glad I'm not on my own with this. I guess it doesn't help when I'm stuck indoors all day. My best friend just moved away from the city and my OH is at work all day and I gave to rest rest rest so it's very boring being on your own all the time. To much time to think.

Hope we are start to enjoy it soon