Who is more desprate to meet baby you or your DH?

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For the past few days ive been snapping at my DH as im desprate to have baby here so was getting very upset.

Now im getting used to the fact thats not goign to get baby here, and im trying to relax as they say its better to be relax. Now my DH keeps getting upset becuase his daughter isnt here yet.

Who is worse at waiting you or your OH?
 
Thats what i tried to explain to my DH but he just didnt get it. I was like yes i know you want her too but i have to carry her and be tired not be able to do much ect. I want her out of here more now.
 
Thats what i tried to explain to my DH but he just didnt get it. I was like yes i know you want her too but i have to carry her and be tired not be able to do much ect. I want her out of here more now.

Men will never get it. I get so mad when I hear OH whining about how he can't do anything anymore after kids BUT he gets his nightly glass of whiskey when he comes home from work. I just know he is a wimp compared to me. :haha:

PS WORST is when he complains about feeling fat and jiggling a tiny TINY beer belly while I have this massive watermelon!
 
defintatly me...if OH was any more calm or placid about things...he'd be backwards!!!
 
FOB keeps poking the bump and telling her she needs to come out already.

I need to clean the house before she comes but cant drag my huge pregnant arse off the sofa..... xx
 
I'd say im looking forward to meeting her more but then i have all the time in the world to obsess over it all as hubby works an awlful lot so has that to think about. But if that makes sense im most looking forward to him meeting her, i think he's going to be such a good daddy and cant wait to see him explode with love for her.
xxx
 
Thats what i tried to explain to my DH but he just didnt get it. I was like yes i know you want her too but i have to carry her and be tired not be able to do much ect. I want her out of here more now.

Men will never get it. I get so mad when I hear OH whining about how he can't do anything anymore after kids BUT he gets his nightly glass of whiskey when he comes home from work. I just know he is a wimp compared to me. :haha:

PS WORST is when he complains about feeling fat and jiggling a tiny TINY beer belly while I have this massive watermelon!

:haha: thats the point you feel like screaming at them and asking them if they would like to try it

I'd say im looking forward to meeting her more but then i have all the time in the world to obsess over it all as hubby works an awlful lot so has that to think about. But if that makes sense im most looking forward to him meeting her, i think he's going to be such a good daddy and cant wait to see him explode with love for her.
xxx

Yes i comepletly get you we get ages with baby they dont get that time in the same way. Yes i want to hold her 1st but at teh same time i cant wait to see him holding is daughter for the 1st time. I think thats lovely about your OH :D
 
Thats what i tried to explain to my DH but he just didnt get it. I was like yes i know you want her too but i have to carry her and be tired not be able to do much ect. I want her out of here more now.

Men will never get it. I get so mad when I hear OH whining about how he can't do anything anymore after kids BUT he gets his nightly glass of whiskey when he comes home from work. I just know he is a wimp compared to me. :haha:

PS WORST is when he complains about feeling fat and jiggling a tiny TINY beer belly while I have this massive watermelon!

:haha: thats the point you feel like screaming at them and asking them if they would like to try it

I'd say im looking forward to meeting her more but then i have all the time in the world to obsess over it all as hubby works an awlful lot so has that to think about. But if that makes sense im most looking forward to him meeting her, i think he's going to be such a good daddy and cant wait to see him explode with love for her.
xxx

Yes i comepletly get you we get ages with baby they dont get that time in the same way. Yes i want to hold her 1st but at teh same time i cant wait to see him holding is daughter for the 1st time. I think thats lovely about your OH :D

Yeah makes me feel all warm inside thinking wow he's going to be a daddy and such a good one :) eeeeeeee exciting :) xx
 
I think it's more me as I'm getting more inpatient as days goes on but I think that's because I've finished work so it's all I thinking about. I find myself saying "please let me go into labour tonight" most nights! My OH doesn't have as much time on his hands to think about it like me but he does wake up every morning for work & he'll say to my belly "can you come out today" lol. Part of me thinks it's because he wants to have 2 weeks off work lol but I do believe he's getting more & more excited as the days go on! x
 
my dh is really exited and talks about lo being born every day, I have countdown calendar at home that I made (where you tear off a page each day) and oh is always up early so he can take one off :haha: however, considering the amount of problems I'm having I would say me as its me thats going through the uncomfortable bit :haha:
 
i think im more desperate to meet him

my OH is now getting to the stage where he knows it's going to happen and as much as he loves our son he's very nervous about being a dad as he's never been around babies before. i just cant wait!! 12 days maximum and i'll have my little man =) x
 
I think it's more me as I'm getting more inpatient as days goes on but I think that's because I've finished work so it's all I thinking about. I find myself saying "please let me go into labour tonight" most nights! My OH doesn't have as much time on his hands to think about it like me but he does wake up every morning for work & he'll say to my belly "can you come out today" lol. Part of me thinks it's because he wants to have 2 weeks off work lol but I do believe he's getting more & more excited as the days go on! x

Haha, each day FOB tells baby to come out so he can have 2 weeks off! I gently remind him that its going to be more hard work with a new baby than at work, he'll be thankful to get back to work afterwards :haha:
 
I think we are about even actually. I'm getting fed up and just want him to come and meet us now as its taking its toll on my body but my hubby is excited about becoming a dad.

He is away during the week so is having to wait on me to text / ring with updates rather than seeing it first hand.

He is also not looking forward to work next week so wants him to arrive so he can have his 2 weeks paternity lol
 

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