Who thought it was gonna be easy

[jo27]

to get pregnant??!! I know i did, didn't really think about it and how technical it can be . 12 months on still ttc it's really starting to do my head in!!!!

 

[Arcanegirl]

I did too.

 

[JK1978]

I did...LOL We had it drilled in our heads that we were gonna get pregnant if we had sex!!! Oh the fear!!! Who knew lol

 

[jo27]

I was thinking about it today and how until you even start trying you don't know what problems you're going to face or if you have any medical problems. You just take for granted that when you decide you want a baby its gonna happen, easier said than done for some people

 

[Chellebelle]

I totally agree. When I was always warned about getting pregnant and wearing contraception... I was so paranoid, even when I was on the pill if I was a day late I thought "oh no my pill hasn't worked"... if only it was that simple.

 

[Mervs Mum]

I've spent most of my adult life trying not to get pregnant! I think you just take it for granted that it will just happen.

 

[Iwantone!!!]

aawww jojo hunni if u need to talk txt's us babe meet up for lunch or something xxx

 

[miel]

i know i did too...may be i should think oh ! i hope i am not PG !!! and than may be it will happen .

 

[HAYS]

I've spent most of my adult life trying not to get pregnant! I think you just take it for granted that it will just happen.

very true comment hun!
crap really isnt it, so frustrating and upsetting every month when the arrives

 

[NeyNey]

I kind of had an idea, my mother carried a child to full term and then she was still born because mum's birth canal was too small (didn't test for that kind of thing in those days)- and it was almost 9 years before she conceived with me. They tried all sorts of fertility drugs and things, nothing worked until they literally had given up.

So, I was kind of expecting to hit a snag or two. But I wasn't expecting that over two years later we'd still be empty armed

 

[Mervs Mum]

Oh Sweetheart.

You're baby is coming - I'm sure.

 

[Mynxie]

I got pregnant the first month we tried, but lost the baby. TBH not only is TTC hard, heartbreaking but I used to take it for granted that pregnancy meant having a baby, - it's not as simple as that

 

[avistar]

I know they like drill it in you when you are young that if you have sex you will get preg so BEWARE!! haha, and now you aren't using any protection and it is like....hmmmmm so why am I not preg now!!!! DUH!! haha. I know it is aggravating!!! Keep positive, stay healthy, and educate yourself about ttc and it will happen for all!!!

 

[suzan]

I did.. Oh my, it eats up time..

 

[chefamy1122]

I know what you gals mean. I went to a Catholic school, so it was always drilled into my head "No sex before marriage (whoops) and as soon as you get married you will be able to have lots and lots of babies" So I always figured that when my DH and I were ready, it would happen. Once I started to understand about PCOS and other forms of infertility, and knew that my body wasn't "quite right" I started to get concerned.

 

[justme00]

The first time I had unprotected sex with DH I was so paranoid that I was pregnant. Now sometimes I wonder why I was ever even on b/c!

I look at everyone in my family that got pregnant accidently at age 16 and you think....well it has to be easy for some people!? My mom got pregnant the first time she ever had sex.

 

[faith_may]

I did too, I thought in one month I'll be pregnant, and here I am 2 months gone (I know it's not a lot of time), and I'm not pregnant, and I'm so sad because AF came today, so that means "I hope I have better luck next month"

 

[loopylew]

me and DH definately thought it would be easier so we didn't start trying till after our wedding, when we've actually wanted to try for about the past 18 months

 

[Carolina]

i had a feeling it wouldt happen instantly for me because ive always had a couple of strange health problems and because my af is soo heavy and painful i had a feeling it wouldnt be easy. For years when im in pain with af ive though to myself well maybe ove got really strong hormones so ill have a really healthy baby and i just have to get through this. Found out yesterday my gynae thinks ive got endometriosis but he thinks i will get pregnant so we shall see I guess im more sceptical than most!

 

[TrixieLox]

I did too, I thought in one month I'll be pregnant, and here I am 2 months gone (I know it's not a lot of time), and I'm not pregnant, and I'm so sad because AF came today, so that means "I hope I have better luck next month"

I'm the same as you, Faith-May. Only been trying for a coupla months. Deep down, I thought it would happen quickly cos ALL of my family fall so quickly, like first time they try. But then they were all in their 20s when trying whereas I'm 30. But part of me thought it'd happen quite quickly.