Why am I a bag of nerves?

[kafs78]

Right ladies, even though your not at any higher risk of MC than anyone else, why am i a nervous wreck?

Im not cramping.. no bleeding.... but still the paranoia is there!

Im 6w + 5d, and still havent been to see my Dr or MW yet...... suppose im a bit apprehensive.

Even when i do get a scan..... will the nerves go? NO CHANCE!!

 

[Pippasdvision]

To be honest I was very nervous during my last sucsessful pregnancy and though it eased every now and then I was all the way through. I am a worrier by nature so it was onyl to be expected

 

[hb1]

No - the nerves don't go - maybe for a couple of days and then the doubts creep back in. It's natural - just try and focus on positives and then when you have a wobble the ladies on here will def help - they did for me today

I have had 3 scans now - an early reassurance scan, private scan and my 12 week scan - the fear has built up prior to each scan and then I've had some lovely worry free days and then back to worrying.

You're not alone

hx

 

[Mizze]

Im afraid hon that worrying is part of the deal

It doesnt mean you are paranoid - it just means you are aware of what can go wrong and its hard to get past that.

Had my 16 wk mw appt today and was worried terribly before that - with no reason at all.

At appt - found out everything is perfect both with me and baby!

But that wont stop me worrying myself silly before the 20 week scan I have no doubt.

All we can do it just try to manage it as best we can and not let it rule or incapacitate us.

Mizze xx