Why are ppl so quick to judge (mini rant xx)

[WinterKage]

I went to carnival today with my husband, brother, mum & dad and i had one old lady come right up to my face & say Im too young! while smiling, i said excuse me just leave me alone and moved away and she followed me. My mum got mad and had a go at her saying hey who are you to judge, then on the way home i had another lady come up to my face and blatantly say how old are you??. I was really annoyed now and just ignored her while my mum had another go. What gives people the right to blatantly come up to my face telling me their opinion and trying to make me upset! Im just so annoyed, at the moment im ignoring them but if it continues im going to start having my say! I turn 21 in Sept but look young but at the end of the day does it matter wht my age is?

Anyone else experience this?? xx

 

[Tanara]

I did with my son, but i dont now i dont know if its cause i have a 2.5 year old and people assume im older, but just tell them to mind their bussiness and walk away, if they follow you ignore them, there really isnt anything you can do

 

[BButterflies]

Your almost 21!! Quite frankly i think that is ridiculous, tell these interfering ignorant people to get over themselves!

If you were 14/15 then i'd expect it a bit more but 21 really

How young do you think you look?

 

[x__amour]

I'm sorry!
People can be really terrible sometimes. I hate when they're so judgmental, it makes me sick to my stomach. But it's something we have to put up with and it's better to be positive about it. I've had it happen before too. I literally look like I'm 15. Haha, I've asked random strangers, "Hey, how old do you think I am?" And they'll be like, "Um, 15, 16?" Then I tell them I turn 19 in October and they're like, "Whoa!" Yeah, everytime I go to the grocery store people are always glaring at my stomach and I just smile at them! Sorry people are so rude though. Haha, your mom is pretty bad ass sticking up for you like that! But yeah, if they come up to you just tell them to mind their own business and walk away and if they're seriously following you? Wow. They have no life.

 

[WinterKage]

Thank you, yh i plan to just ignore them, i get some people say i look around the 16 age mark, but the ages vary of what people think, oh well tommorow is another day xx

 

[newmommy23]

even if you were 16...seriously? people are insane! I get rude looks a lot too and I look my age! I'm 20 for gods sake will you people go away?

 

[Youngling]

Some people are just rude!!
Im 21 and used to get looks all the time when i was out on my own, but when i was with OH no1 seemed to be bothered.
Just ignore them hun, they dont need to know ur age or situation. Its no1 elses business
xx

 

[barrowland]

dont get upset im only really just starting to show properlly and i had a breakdown when i got home and cried all night because people where giving me funny looks, im 19 on sunday and honestly i dont think that its too young i have seen about 12 15 year olds where i live with massive baby bellies and i know they're 15 because i saw them in school when i was there and people just look at them and say what a shame they've ruined their lives but i get dirty looks and tut tuts at me.
its horrible i know but ignore them and if someone gets right in your face about it and then follows you after being told to leave you alone id turn around and loudly make a scene and shame them

 

[natlee]

i get this all the time too because i look young for my age im 21 but id say i looked about 18, but whats it got to do with other people anyway it really annoys me but i try not to let it get to me anymore because at the end of the day we are going to have beautiful little ones in our arms soon and they are still going to be grumpy old misery guts lol!! hope you ok x

 

[rjb]

i get this, but i just smile back and remembr that i will outlive those people
but in all reality, just don't give them the reaction they are looking for.