Why did I do it??!!!

[izzy29]

AF due today and still no sign, I wrongly had myself convinced this was the month it would happen, i really felt different, but after taking a test and it being negative I wish I never got my hopes up. I was fine about it until OH asked me was there any sign and I told him no, but had done a test and it was a 'no' too he did a big sigh of disappointment. When I asked him what the sigh was all about he said he was fed up trying! I know he is just disappointed, me too but I think I am more annoyed with his response and made to feel like it's my fault, which it prob is to be fair. Started thyroxine this month so was hoping it was going to work miracles but it's early days and extremely low dose so I shouldn't have expected. Just hoped it would happen before I got my hosp apt through to see FS. Apologises for the rant. Think it is the first time in a year or trying that I have let it get to me, plus I went to my slimming class tonight and am back Up to the same weight I was when I joined about 9 mths ago!!! Not good!

 

[PrincessTaz]

Aw and remember you're not out until af shows, I hear loads of women on here saying that they didn't get their BFP till really late.

Also it is definitely not your fault, so try not to think like that. Sometimes men don't engage their brains before they speak and I think we sometimes forget that they're going through it too, at least he cares though.

 

[Sophe]

Why should you not get your hopes up? I too beat myself up for it, but why shouldn't we? we need to cling to the little hope and beleif we have.

It might still be a BFP, as the above post says some ladies on here don't get BFP straight away... even if its not, you are on meds now and every day you are taing them you are getting nearer to your BFP...

sorry about the weight,weights a real tough one, iits not easy to loose remember that, you can just keep trying its all you can do. (((((HUGS))))

 

[Hays :)]

Ditto what the other girls have said, dont put too much pressure on yourself love, and i hope things work out for you xx

 

[izzy29]

Thanks for all the messages girls. Seems to be the first month I actually thought it might be a BFP. Af arrived today so that's me out for another month, roll on next month

 

[Armywife84]

That's why I gave up testing. I went thru a stage of where my body was playing tricks on me with days late AF and I've always been very regular. 5 days late, once I had a 2 week late AF. Gosh, I thought that was it..then my blood tests came back negative and 5 days later AF finally showed . That was a rough time. Now, I just don't bother.

s are so cruel.

Just keep in mind you're giving it your best shot each month, that's all you can do.

 

[wannabemummyb]

That's why I gave up testing. I went thru a stage of where my body was playing tricks on me with days late AF and I've always been very regular. 5 days late, once I had a 2 week late AF. Gosh, I thought that was it..then my blood tests came back negative and 5 days later AF finally showed . That was a rough time. Now, I just don't bother.

s are so cruel.

Just keep in mind you're giving it your best shot each month, that's all you can do.

I feel the same, af is two weeks late, but not sure its worth testing because it could just be my body being mucked up again!

Izzy i think we all go through it, i didn't symptom spot at all this month, till af didn't show! Oh well!
to you x

 

[Sophe]

MY AF has been two weeks late too.... its hell... it was a bad time for me, we get our hopes up and then it breaks our hearts, its so cruel.. I do not test anymore either!

 

[Damita]

 

[mg80]

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[wannabemummyb]

MY AF has been two weeks late too.... its hell... it was a bad time for me, we get our hopes up and then it breaks our hearts, its so cruel.. I do not test anymore either!

It really is cruel! People don't really understand why i don't test, glad someone understands

 

[Armywife84]

Agreed! AF is bad enough, but a BFN too..UGH! Like I needed confirmation of what I already knew!

I don't know how those ladies who test everyday after ovulation, do it. What are they called POAS addicts?

 

[wannabemummyb]

Agreed! AF is bad enough, but a BFN too..UGH! Like I needed confirmation of what I already knew!

I don't know how those ladies who test everyday after ovulation, do it. What are they called POAS addicts?

I'm a not-poas addict