why does he have to be so good with kids ......

[lucy_smith]

It just makes me more broody!!! Lol
My friend came round with her 2 kids at lunch time and my bf come home for his lunch break and was so good with them. Trying to get her to eat her lunch and trying to not let her be scared of the dog and just generally being really nice ! he even said tonight he likes kids and he can't wait for his friend to have one so he can play her him /her lol but why can't he be as excited about us having them !! Lol

 

[JBird]

My boyfriend is a swim teacher so i know exactly what you mean. He's obsessed with little kids and they love him and run up to him in the street when they see him outside of lessons. One kid asked his mum if my boyfriend could be he's second daddy...

 

[lucy_smith]

At least someone else knows what I mean ! It just makes the wait 10x harder lol. I want it so much and watching him get excited about our friend having a baby also makes it difficult! He says he is going to baby sit all the time and take him / her to the park. I just don't understand why he won't get excited about us having one lol

 

[Gemie]

How long are you waiting for lucy_smith?

 

[mamadonna]

Hi gem how's things just noticed ur trying again in the new yr whoop whoop!

 

[lucy_smith]

I don't have a clue, which kind of makes this even difficult it could be 10 years for all I know how about u?

 

[Gemie]

Hi Donna yep were going for it again... Must be mad

How's things with you hun? Xx

Ahh Lucy_smith that must be so frustrating for you. Especially when you're ready and can see what a great dad hell make. Maybe he's nervous to make the jump? Have you asked him his reasons for wanting to wait? Xx

 

[mamadonna]

Stuck in limbo at the minute,we lost our little boy in June at 9 wks they did genetic testing so we were able to find the sex,now we are waiting on our texts hopefully trying again later in the yr x

 

[lucy_smith]

Yeh, I've asked him quite a few times and he says he just don't want the constant commitment to w child just now. his friend is having a baby in December, so I'm hoping that seeing them (who are not in a good a position as us) have a baby and bring one up will give him a little nudge in the right direction fingers crossed
I'm so sorry mamadona got my fingers crossed for u too !!

 

[mamadonna]

Thank you Lucy,i hope ur other half comes round soon.after the mc in June my other half was a definate no to anymore,purely because he didn't want to see me go through that again,but my sister has just had her baby and that's kinda softened him up i think,fingers crossed it does the same for urs x

 

[Gemie]

Aww I'm do sorry Donna I have everything crossed for you!

Lucy fingers crossed seeing his fiends with a baby will give him the push he needs it is just making that initial leap then everything falls into place. Xx