Spudtastic
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I live in nz. I'm from England. I don't get to see my parents often so I love it when they come to see me
I had my second baby 11 days ago and i also have a little bit of the baby blues. My parents arrived last week. They're great because they play with dd1 but they don't do much else, cooking, cleaning etc. This morning I'm trying to settle dd2 with a list of cleaning to do whilst they are waiting for me to be ready to go out.
Then this is the bit that makes me want to cry....I'm on the sofa cluster feeding my little one and my dad asks if he can use the eggs I bought. I say yes. He cooks my mum and himself some boiled eggs for breakfast whilst I'm sat on he sofa. It didn't even cross his mind to ask if I wanted some. I always ask him if I'm making breakfast.
I can't say anything because my dad's response would be 'I'm going back to england'. It's the same with lunch and tea too. I've just had a baby so I thought now they'd think of me.
I had my second baby 11 days ago and i also have a little bit of the baby blues. My parents arrived last week. They're great because they play with dd1 but they don't do much else, cooking, cleaning etc. This morning I'm trying to settle dd2 with a list of cleaning to do whilst they are waiting for me to be ready to go out.
Then this is the bit that makes me want to cry....I'm on the sofa cluster feeding my little one and my dad asks if he can use the eggs I bought. I say yes. He cooks my mum and himself some boiled eggs for breakfast whilst I'm sat on he sofa. It didn't even cross his mind to ask if I wanted some. I always ask him if I'm making breakfast.
I can't say anything because my dad's response would be 'I'm going back to england'. It's the same with lunch and tea too. I've just had a baby so I thought now they'd think of me.