Lilly12
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Im wondering about this..are they legit reasons?
Or just cause your OH isn't ready?
Mines just isn't ready YET, I feel like hes improving though..hehe.
He's getting used to the idea, slowly but surely.
He also changes his mind all the time, one day he said he was worried about everything financially, then I told him we'd be fine, added up all the bills and how much we would have left, and also tried explaining to him that if you have a healthy baby then it's going to be as expensive as you make it..specially if my breastfeeding works out, it'll be "cheap" for the first years..not that i'll be breastfeeding for years but I mean the older kids get the more expensive.
Plus we already have ALOT saved, and financially we are VERY stable.
Then the next day he said he wasn't worried about the financial aspect at all.. He said he's just preparing himself mentally etc.
I have a gut feeling that we'll be ttc within a year...
BTW Im almost 25 and my husband almost 31.
Or just cause your OH isn't ready?
Mines just isn't ready YET, I feel like hes improving though..hehe.
He's getting used to the idea, slowly but surely.
He also changes his mind all the time, one day he said he was worried about everything financially, then I told him we'd be fine, added up all the bills and how much we would have left, and also tried explaining to him that if you have a healthy baby then it's going to be as expensive as you make it..specially if my breastfeeding works out, it'll be "cheap" for the first years..not that i'll be breastfeeding for years but I mean the older kids get the more expensive.
Plus we already have ALOT saved, and financially we are VERY stable.
Then the next day he said he wasn't worried about the financial aspect at all.. He said he's just preparing himself mentally etc.
I have a gut feeling that we'll be ttc within a year...
BTW Im almost 25 and my husband almost 31.