Newborn is 1 week old and ebf. Ds bf till I was 7mo pregnant and slept in my bed until he was 14 mo. It was tough because he just wanted to feed continuously all night long. Sleep associaitions and bad habits formed from day one because I thought co sleeping would be something he'd just do as a new born but it became our routine. It pushed dp out of our bed and he really didn't want it this time.
Dd is not always wanting boon atthus point and hardly feeds at all at night... Maybe twice... She has spent time in the Moses basket in the data nd will go three hours or so in there in the day. She does fall asleep on the boob at times but usually comes off when she's done. I just want to start as we mean to go on. When she goes into the basket at night she goes down asleep and then wakes up even though I wait until she is deeply asleep or appears to be after half an hour or so. So she has slept on our bed all week but we tried the basket each night at start of night. I sleep quite far from her in the bed so why does she want to sleep in the bed so badly? She sleeps really well in the bed and I get a full nights sleep practically so any advice would be really appreciated. Dummy? Swaddling? Help! Dp getting annoyed at me about the situation I think...
Dd is not always wanting boon atthus point and hardly feeds at all at night... Maybe twice... She has spent time in the Moses basket in the data nd will go three hours or so in there in the day. She does fall asleep on the boob at times but usually comes off when she's done. I just want to start as we mean to go on. When she goes into the basket at night she goes down asleep and then wakes up even though I wait until she is deeply asleep or appears to be after half an hour or so. So she has slept on our bed all week but we tried the basket each night at start of night. I sleep quite far from her in the bed so why does she want to sleep in the bed so badly? She sleeps really well in the bed and I get a full nights sleep practically so any advice would be really appreciated. Dummy? Swaddling? Help! Dp getting annoyed at me about the situation I think...