wots goin on? cant feel much movement!!

[taysmummy]

hiya, im gonna tell the truth on this! hate me i dnt care to b honest its killing me more than u cud ever no!

when i got pregnant with 2nd bby,(one im carrying now) i wasnt best pleased!

cudnt go through with abortion, so wen i was 11weeks i basically started hitting my belly, trying to make me misscarry! it didnt work (im still pregs)
i feel so stupid for doing it now im used to the idea now and dont want anything bad to happen.

now im worried tht i may have caused some damage to the bby or placenta??

at the scan everything looked fine, the woman said tht the placenta was ok, but it was alot lower than when i had my daughter!

i can hardly feel any movements at all and im 22weeks on thurs!!
please help i dunno wot to do.

xx thanx u xx

 

[Wobbles]

Eek

Baby being ok after you stopped this is a good sign.

When you say hardly feel any movements are you saying you do but its not full on. I know this is my first but I hadn't felt proper movements *that was defo a kick movement* until a couple of weeks after the stage your at now. I think it can depend on your normal figure size too (no offence) probably why mine were later on too Im no massive but Im not a sall girl at all before pregnancy.

Have you spoke to your MW about this - how you felt etc and what you did at the start? Maybe you could go and have a hcat with her and she could get a scan sorted?

When was yoru scan? 20 weeks?

I don't think the placenta will always be in the same place on all pregnancies. As they say every single pregnancy is different.

x

 

[taysmummy]

Eek

Baby being ok after you stopped this is a good sign.

When you say hardly feel any movements are you saying you do but its not full on. I know this is my first but I hadn't felt proper movements *that was defo a kick movement* until a couple of weeks after the stage your at now. I think it can depend on your normal figure size too (no offence) probably why mine were later on too Im no massive but Im not a sall girl at all before pregnancy.

Have you spoke to your MW about this - how you felt etc and what you did at the start? Maybe you could go and have a hcat with her and she could get a scan sorted?

When was yoru scan? 20 weeks?

I don't think the placenta will always be in the same place on all pregnancies. As they say every single pregnancy is different.

x

hiya thank u so much for replying, i feel like such a bitch for doing what i did!!
my scan was at 20 weeks yeah and they said everything was fine, but im jst woried coz dont feel as much movement with one as did with my other, when bby dus kick it feels as though its deeper in my belly unlike with my first, very wierd!! do u have msn?? thanx u

i havent spoken to my midwife about it as i wudnt want her to think ht maybe i wud wnt to harm the bby wen he born, coz i dont im actually really excited about him now!

 

[Wobbles]

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Think it was a hard thing to say "look I did this" but its great your now excited about it & I think it would take the same courage to speak with your MW about it - your attitude now makes the difference but I see why you would think that.

Being only 2 weeks ago that you had the scan I wouldn't think anything was wrong due to what you regretfully did back then. I've seen girls who have had more than one pregnancy say they have or haven't felt bubs as much as previous pregnancy I guess they all have there own little ways and comfy positions in there making the movmement sensations different too (hopefully you know what Im saying lol).

What about a little doppler to hear the heartbeat? I love mine.

The 10 movements per day Im pretty sure don't apply until 30 weeks+ so there must be a reason for that too.

 

[shamrockgirl4]

sorry u went thru that at first it could have been ur hormones messing up making u feel this way however uve gotten over that part good for u hope all goes well with the rest of ur pg hun xxx

 

[Mango]

Hi TaysMummy, I'm glad you're feeling better about your pregnancy now. I was not happy with mine at first either. As for the low amounts of movement, if doc said everything looked fine in the scan I'd trust them.

Lil ones have their up and down days too and some days move around a lot more than others. Back at 20-22 weeks I had days where lil one would barely move.

But if you are not noticing ANY movement over an entire day give your MW a call hun like Wobbles said.

 

[nikkybaby]

I was not excited either about this pregnancy in the beginning. Now it seems like a blessing. Don't worry either...if the docs said the baby was fine, then it's okay. I don't always feel movement either. Sometimes only once a day, and its barely noticeable. If your really worried, you could get a heart doppler. Just try and stay positive.

P.S. Last night I wanted to feel some movement, and I heard that using a flashlight can make them move around, so I tried it, and it worked!

 

[TryingAgain]

It hasn't been until more recently that i feel movement everyday, when my baby first started to kick it would seem like days inbetween feeling movement, so i always became paranoid, now i just worry if i don't feel it everytime i sit down, lol!!

 

[taysmummy]

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Think it was a hard thing to say "look I did this" but its great your now excited about it & I think it would take the same courage to speak with your MW about it - your attitude now makes the difference but I see why you would think that.

Being only 2 weeks ago that you had the scan I wouldn't think anything was wrong due to what you regretfully did back then. I've seen girls who have had more than one pregnancy say they have or haven't felt bubs as much as previous pregnancy I guess they all have there own little ways and comfy positions in there making the movmement sensations different too (hopefully you know what Im saying lol).

What about a little doppler to hear the heartbeat? I love mine.

The 10 movements per day Im pretty sure don't apply until 30 weeks+ so there must be a reason for that too.

i will mention it to her i got her on the 22nd,
hope she dnt think im off my head of something lol
last night was the first night when i was laying in bed it felt like i was being kicked to death about 6 times lol so thats a good sign and i loved it lol!
xx

 

[taysmummy]

sorry u went thru that at first it could have been ur hormones messing up making u feel this way however uve gotten over that part good for u hope all goes well with the rest of ur pg hun xxx

i think the reason why i felt like that was bcoz of the way my mum reacted, she said some pretty harsh things! telling me to get rid and tht i wont b able to cope etc!
i was just scared incase she was rite, but hopefully i will b ok, being a single mum is hardwork sometimes xx

 

[taysmummy]

Hi TaysMummy, I'm glad you're feeling better about your pregnancy now. I was not happy with mine at first either. As for the low amounts of movement, if doc said everything looked fine in the scan I'd trust them.

Lil ones have their up and down days too and some days move around a lot more than others. Back at 20-22 weeks I had days where lil one would barely move.

But if you are not noticing ANY movement over an entire day give your MW a call hun like Wobbles said.

glad to no tht someones knows how im feeling xx

 

[taysmummy]

I was not excited either about this pregnancy in the beginning. Now it seems like a blessing. Don't worry either...if the docs said the baby was fine, then it's okay. I don't always feel movement either. Sometimes only once a day, and its barely noticeable. If your really worried, you could get a heart doppler. Just try and stay positive.

P.S. Last night I wanted to feel some movement, and I heard that using a flashlight can make them move around, so I tried it, and it worked!

i hope everything will b fine, i wud still love bby wotever the outcome!
glad tht u have come to terms with being pregs again, its scary thought at first huh?? lol

good luck with the flash light, jst make sure the neighbours dnt think u got a burglar or something xx

 

[sophie]

Glad u are feelin better
This is my 2nd baby and im 31 wks, this baby isnt half as active as my 1st even now at 31 wks im not feelin big massive kicks (i think shes angelic lol) i dont think ive gone a day yet with constanly worrying about how little movement i get! But my MW assured me its nothing to worry about every baby is different its if the pattern changes!
X

 

[princess2323]

with me 1st movements 18 1/2 weeks
not much but kept building up til 20 weeks wehn they were the strongest then went down for another 2 weeks but still felt something throughout every day or two even just a lil but after say 22-23 weeks constantly feel him sometimes more than others---today he's kicking up a storm--- so i wouldnt worry too much bout it at ur stage its normal--- but after 24-26 weeks it should be constant every day 10 times in one hour is normal ---my ob started having me do the counting thing (say 27 weeks) and count 10 for an hour twice a day morning and evening-- if nothing then call

 

[BurtonBaby]

My doc told me that at 28 weeks you should at least feel 10 in a day, not in an hour that early.

I still feel her on and off. Some days when I'm at home not doing much, feel her a lot more. But if your out and busy, you probably miss little kicks too. Good luck, glad to here your happier about the pregnancy now.