Would have been 12 weeks yesterday.

[NeyNey]

Urgh...And feeling pretty shitty about it.

I have a ticker on another website, it's the babystrology one where you see the little bean swimming around growing - I haven't been able to bring myself to take it down, it's a private site and sometimes I just go and watch the little bean swimming away...It somehow comforts me? Not sure why.

 

[Carley]

I'm here for you babe, you know that I hope...

 

[miel]

 

[Suz]

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

aww hunni its very very hard isnt it... i have 4 dates in my head.. all my babies birthdays.. or what shud have been. and 4 sum reason i cnt scrub the fact id be 19 weeks from my mind...
im on one of those sites that counts ur weeks and i cant cancel it so i always get a reminder...
only thing u can do is just try look forwards..

 

[krissi]

Aww hun, life really sucks sometimes, whatever you get comfort from you continue to do xx

 

[oOKayOo]

 

[destiny27]

 

[niknaknat]

 

[jacky24]

i am thinking of you day and night, as you know it will get beter hun....

 

[tansey]

 

[todteach]

 

[Lazy Leo]

Aw sweetheart I wish I could come and give you a big hug. i would have been 12 weeks just a few weeks ago and I was a mess. It wasn't helped by the fact that hubby was away and didn't really click to the date. For me I think it was the fact I should have been telling everyone and it should have been such a happy time. And it's not. Quite frankly it's shit. There's no other word for it. And there's very little I can say to comfort you hun, I only wish there was.

We are all different but if it's any consolation I have really felt able to move forward in the three or four weeks since I hit that marker. But I've also watched my friend's baby be born with serious defects and she may not get home until she is 8 months old. She is beautiful and going to survive, but it made me wonder how ill my little Applepip was given that he didn't make it? I think that has made it a lot easier for me to let go of Applepip.

It hurts darling, it does and I don't want to say it will get easier because you are different to me, but if it's any consolation it has gotten easier for me and I hope it will for you too. PM me anytime, xxxxxxx

 

[Rumpskin]

I am sorry sweets. Every date is significant when you have a loss.

I would have had my little rumpskin this month

 

[ZoeBunny]

 

[Logiebear]

Big hun. It feels awful when you are reminded of how many weeks etc you would have been. I went to see my friend on Tuesday and she and I were given the same due date so she is 26 weeks now!!

 

[Vickie]

 

[SJK]

sorry chick, , I know how you feel, I was supposed to go for my 12 week scan today too xx

 

[ktbean]

I know exactly what you're going through and I'm so sorry. I'm 11weeks 2 days right now and currently miscarrying. I feel so incredibly sad.

 

[Jessa]

I know exactly what you're going through and I'm so sorry. I'm 11weeks 2 days right now and currently miscarrying. I feel so incredibly sad.

Hang in there. I went through a miscarriage almost two weeks ago now. It seems like so much has changed between now and then. It'll get better.