would love a ttc buddy

[lodiejene]

My cycle is a little irregular but are is supposed to come around Dec 5. I am ttc my second child even thought the Dr said I may have a hard time. I wlike love a buddy to talk/vent to about this process.

 

[Jai Me]

Hello lodiejene,
How do you do?
I am also pretty new to BnB, I am 28 y/o, DH is 32, we have been TTC#1 since September 2010, I started Clomid in November. My cycles are also very irregular, I am thinking AF is due about Dec 5th-7th,
but it's hard to know for sure. Of course I am hoping for a BFP! How long have you been TTC #2

 

[peachy905]

Hi there,
I am ttc as well and would love a ttc buddy! Message me anytime : )

 

[moter98]

I am ttc #2 also. this is my 7th cycle with chemical preg on my 2nd cycle. since the chemical it just isn't happening for me. no known fertility issues. DS was conceived very quickly, within 3 cycles, not really trying too hard the first 2 cycles even. now, i can't help but wonder if something with the chemical affected my fertility. maybe changed hormones. i can't get tested at the dr. yet as it has only been 6 months of ttc, 4 months after chemical.
af is expected dec 7th. i am currently 10dpo with bfn today. not surprising as i've seem many of those!

how long have you all been ttc?

 

[lodiejene]

I would love to be buddies with all of you. I know it's had and I feel the more we can support each other the better. I am 32 and I have been TTC #2 for about 6 months. I think it's more stressful for me this time because I have a Fibroid tumor that is 8 cm that grew when I was pregnant with my daughter. I talked to a specialist he said they start effecting fertility at 3 cm. He said I should remove it. My Dr that was with me for my first pregnancy said that he would say the same if it was anybody else but since I had the tumor with the last one and had no issues he thinks I'll be ok. So we decided to try. Fingers crossed.

I wish all of you the best of luck with TTC. I'm here to chat anytime.

 

[peachy905]

I have been trying for 5 months now and just got AF today. Last year at about this time I had an ectopic and lost my right tube... so now with decreased odds I know it will take longer than usual. The more time that goes by though and I test negative I get so discouraged...

 

[moter98]

I would love to be buddies with all of you. I know it's had and I feel the more we can support each other the better. I am 32 and I have been TTC #2 for about 6 months. I think it's more stressful for me this time because I have a Fibroid tumor that is 8 cm that grew when I was pregnant with my daughter. I talked to a specialist he said they start effecting fertility at 3 cm. He said I should remove it. My Dr that was with me for my first pregnancy said that he would say the same if it was anybody else but since I had the tumor with the last one and had no issues he thinks I'll be ok. So we decided to try. Fingers crossed.

I wish all of you the best of luck with TTC. I'm here to chat anytime.

its been 6 months ttc for us too. no known fertility issues. did your dr. say the fibroid was that big when you concieved #1?
as for me, i am 11dpo, af expected wed or thurs. bfn today.

 

[moter98]

I have been trying for 5 months now and just got AF today. Last year at about this time I had an ectopic and lost my right tube... so now with decreased odds I know it will take longer than usual. The more time that goes by though and I test negative I get so discouraged...

i know the feeling. 6 months, 1 chemical and lots of bfn's. it gets disheartening after awhile. try to keep your hopes up though. you do still have one functioning tube so focus on that. to all!

 

[peachy905]

Thanks for your kind words motor98. I am trying to keep my spirits up... as hard as it is sometimes. I would love so much to have a second little one.

 

[Jai Me]

Hello Ladies, I am feeling real antsy today. AF is due any day now. I am trying to refrain from buying a test. Today is CD28, This was my first month on Clomid. I had a very faint amount of brownish blood/discharge one time during the day on Saturday. I was ticked off, because I guess that means AF is on her way.
I really hate this monthy roller coaster.

 

[lodiejene]

I would love to be buddies with all of you. I know it's had and I feel the more we can support each other the better. I am 32 and I have been TTC #2 for about 6 months. I think it's more stressful for me this time because I have a Fibroid tumor that is 8 cm that grew when I was pregnant with my daughter. I talked to a specialist he said they start effecting fertility at 3 cm. He said I should remove it. My Dr that was with me for my first pregnancy said that he would say the same if it was anybody else but since I had the tumor with the last one and had no issues he thinks I'll be ok. So we decided to try. Fingers crossed.

I wish all of you the best of luck with TTC. I'm here to chat anytime.

its been 6 months ttc for us too. no known fertility issues. did your dr. say the fibroid was that big when you concieved #1?
as for me, i am 11dpo, af expected wed or thurs. bfn today.

With the first one it was small when I conceived so I think it might make a differenvelope but I'm trying to stay hopeful.

 

[lodiejene]

How's every one doing? I am one day late and tested yesterday but it was a bfn. I feel overly emotional today so the witch may be on the way. I'm feeling a little sad today when I told my bf about the bfn he said that tried and it's not his fault I can't.. and babies. This was his idea if a joke to cheer me up but it made me sad and hurt my feelings. He says I'm too emotional.

 

[moter98]

Hello Ladies, I am feeling real antsy today. AF is due any day now. I am trying to refrain from buying a test. Today is CD28, This was my first month on Clomid. I had a very faint amount of brownish blood/discharge one time during the day on Saturday. I was ticked off, because I guess that means AF is on her way.
I really hate this monthy roller coaster.

That happened to me last month 2 days before AF showed up. I was really hoping it was IB, but it wasn't for me. However, about 30% of women get light pink or brown spotting during implantation, so it's possible it was that. It's really hard to know until you get a BFP or AF shows. Good luck!

 

[moter98]

How's every one doing? I am one day late and tested yesterday but it was a bfn. I feel overly emotional today so the witch may be on the way. I'm feeling a little sad today when I told my bf about the bfn he said that tried and it's not his fault I can't.. and babies. This was his idea if a joke to cheer me up but it made me sad and hurt my feelings. He says I'm too emotional.

Oh, I'm sorry your OH said something so insensitive! My DH has also said things that crossed the line when I had my chemical. I let him know that was not ok and really hurt me. He apologized and felt really bad because he was trying to be funny but didn't really think it through what he was saying. (He has a pretty sick sense of humor) You should let your OH know that really hurt your feelings. He probably didn't even mean it, just something said without thinking it through.
For your fibroid, have you tried natural ways to shrink it? You could try taking Vitex to shrink it. You could try Fertilaid, which contains Vitex. It's supposed to balance your hormones and help with fertility. I haven't yet taken it myself, planning to if I don't get a BFP after this next cycle. It has really good reviews on Amazon and is all natural.
Forgot to add, it says not to take Fertilaid if you are taking Clomid.

 

[Jai Me]

Hello Ladies, I am feeling real antsy today. AF is due any day now. I am trying to refrain from buying a test. Today is CD28, This was my first month on Clomid. I had a very faint amount of brownish blood/discharge one time during the day on Saturday. I was ticked off, because I guess that means AF is on her way.
I really hate this monthy roller coaster.

That happened to me last month 2 days before AF showed up. I was really hoping it was IB, but it wasn't for me. However, about 30% of women get light pink or brown spotting during implantation, so it's possible it was that. It's really hard to know until you get a BFP or AF shows. Good luck!

Well AF arrived today, so I am OUT! I called to let the Doctor know and she increased my Clomid to 100mg, I will start taking it this Sunday! Hoping for that BFP 2012!!!!

 

[peachy905]

Sorry to hear Jai Me. Looks like are cycles are close. AF arrived this past Sunday for me. Hoping for a new year BFP as well!

 

[lodiejene]

I had a reg dr apt today and I mentioned how I felt and that I was 4 days late. He did a blood test and it was negative. They say I can go in and they can help me monitor from now on and help me if I need it with cookies or something. I'm a little howdy because with all of the symptoms I had gotten my hopes up this time I guess IAve to keep trying.

 

[peachy905]

I had a reg dr apt today and I mentioned how I felt and that I was 4 days late. He did a blood test and it was negative. They say I can go in and they can help me monitor from now on and help me if I need it with cookies or something. I'm a little howdy because with all of the symptoms I had gotten my hopes up this time I guess IAve to keep trying.

Sorry to hear hun, at least now you know and can BD in about 10 days or so? Perhaps you were meant to have a 2012 baby!

 

[lodiejene]

I'm getting frustrated because I still haven't seen the witch and I'm 7 days late. However the DR said I'm not pregnant last Friday. I want it to come so I can try again of I'm not I hate this limbo.

 

[Jai Me]

I'm getting frustrated because I still haven't seen the witch and I'm 7 days late. However the DR said I'm not pregnant last Friday. I want it to come so I can try again of I'm not I hate this limbo.

So did AF arrive? I on CD 12, im using OPK'S waiting for a +
This is my last chance to try to conceive before we enter 2012!!