ItsJana
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This pregnancy has not been fun, I've had so many things go wrong and I've been struggling. Of the people that know about the issues (which is not many, since I'm usually more of a private person), no one seems to care. I'm wondering if I should even call these people up once baby is born or just let them inquire themselves.
Stepmother: When I told her I was pregnant 32 weeks ago her reaction was that it was "beautiful news". Since then I haven't heard a thing from her, I emailed her 2 weeks ago to tell her baby will be here soon and got no response.
"Friend 1": Seemed happy for me in the beginning, but after I wasn't able to volunteer my time for her organization because of pregnancy health issues I've heard little from her. She constantly says we should get together before the baby comes and I never hear from her. When I call and suggest something it's always "my kids have the stomach flu", if my kids had the stomach flu as often as hers have I'd be very concerned. I sent her a text to wish her and her kids a happy holiday a week and a bit ago and heard nothing back.
"Friend 2": When I first told this person I was pregnant she said "I thought you didn't want anymore kids" and this is after telling her I was getting my IUD removed. After she did finally congratulate me. Two weeks later she calls and tells me she's pregnant. A week after that she says she's not and that the test was negative. Two months later she calls and tells me that she had a miscarriage, my husband thinks she's lying because of the details and timeline she gave. I would like to think that no one would ever lie about something like this, but I really don't know.
There is a lot I'm not saying about these three people, but I hope I can get my general point across. If you were me would you even bother telling these people when baby comes?
Stepmother: When I told her I was pregnant 32 weeks ago her reaction was that it was "beautiful news". Since then I haven't heard a thing from her, I emailed her 2 weeks ago to tell her baby will be here soon and got no response.
"Friend 1": Seemed happy for me in the beginning, but after I wasn't able to volunteer my time for her organization because of pregnancy health issues I've heard little from her. She constantly says we should get together before the baby comes and I never hear from her. When I call and suggest something it's always "my kids have the stomach flu", if my kids had the stomach flu as often as hers have I'd be very concerned. I sent her a text to wish her and her kids a happy holiday a week and a bit ago and heard nothing back.
"Friend 2": When I first told this person I was pregnant she said "I thought you didn't want anymore kids" and this is after telling her I was getting my IUD removed. After she did finally congratulate me. Two weeks later she calls and tells me she's pregnant. A week after that she says she's not and that the test was negative. Two months later she calls and tells me that she had a miscarriage, my husband thinks she's lying because of the details and timeline she gave. I would like to think that no one would ever lie about something like this, but I really don't know.
There is a lot I'm not saying about these three people, but I hope I can get my general point across. If you were me would you even bother telling these people when baby comes?