Would you...

[Shezza84uk]

Unfriend FOB on facebook and leave his family or unfriend them all??

Background..

My ex walked out on me and DD 2 weeks before our wedding and before I knew I was pregnant he basically announced it on FB before speaking to me, I decided to deactivate my FB to allow myself the space to grieve and handle my emotions without airing my dirty laundry in public or post something on there I knew I would regret. Few months after he left I spoke to his sister who said they were told by ex I deleted them and wanted them to stay away which obviously I didn't so that was a lie! they also had no idea I was pregnant until that conversation at 5 months pregnant..

We already had a DD together and now our DS who most of my family who ive not spoken to since deactivating my FB have no idea I have a second child because most of them live overseas I sort of miss being able to catch up and share pictures with everyone I know.

I have deleted him already and I know he will be annoyed if I reactivate and he is not on there but should I remove his family too? He is adopted and I do not see eye to eye with his adopted mum because she actually supported him walking out without a valid reason and she also tried to have everyone mutual to us turn against me but his sisters etc I have no issues with.. I think by deleting them it would make them feel he was telling the truth about me wanting nothing to do with them?

It sucks I have to actually think about this as its so petty but what would you do??

 

[Jslyn9996]

Id keep the sisters and if it started causing any drama then I would remove.

 

[tiasmummy]

i suppose it depends what you really want from any of them....if its nothing, then i would remove them all.

 

[Danie1stbaby]

hmmm that is kind of tough~ It depends on how close you are with the sisters.See with me,I would delete everybody and not care who thought what,if none of them are in the children"s life.If you are close to the sisters,I would keep them on fb.I agree with the ladies above.What do you want to do? What is your gut telling you?

I am sorry you had to experience that,omg how much can 1 heart take? You are a strong woman to handle all of that

 

[Shezza84uk]

Thank you ladies, I don't want anything from them but they have now established a relationship with DD.

Throughout the entire situation I have kept my cool and tried to be rational considering we will always have my children between us I will reactivate it and let them delete me..

The only person who have anything to be upset about is me xx

 

[JennyBLove]

I would just keep the part of his family that you are okay with on there!! Thats awful he never said anything, my fob didnt tell his mom either, i told her, n dont think he knows i did. But she told me to leave him. Either way mommas always got sons side, but they should be embarrassed of how their sons are!! Yeah i would keep them on and let them see how things are going with you since the baby gonna want a grandma and aunts and so on you know. And also it will show them that you didnt delete them...maybe post something like you shutdown fb for a bit but back up and running agian . so it doesnt look like that too. Yeah that sucks....i still have fob on my fb but we are broken up but i want his dumb a$$ too see how things go n rub in his face...yeah thats sad he left two weeks before. so many of them out there like that, and the moms have no idea what really happend or familt cuz they were not there. good luck, and im sure he wants u to look bad and not have his fam on there but id keep them on just for that.