Resign yourself now to the fact that you will probably get at least one dirty look. I never really stopped to think about it so when Asher had a bout of being really unhappy of being on my lap and fussed for a bit, the amount of dirty looks that were thrown my way really surprised and upset me. I could have just let it go but that's not my style, lol.
I turned to this older women who kept glaring and tutting and said "It's hard enough to know that not only is my son unhappy, but everybody else around us is unhappy as well. I'm doing my best to keep him happy but looks and comments like yours don't help me. They stress me out which in turn, stresses my baby out, which in turn, makes him cry more!"
That shut her up pretty quickly!