Hi Rapunzel, of course you're welcome. A large part of my confusion is the age gap which is getting ever bigger, and the trouble is that even though I still want another it gets harder to think about going back to the baby stage the further we get from it this time. Not just in terms of sleepless nights but also nursery fees and the limits on what we can do as a family.
I do worry too about the implication of getting and staying pregnant now I'm older. Also, since my last pregnancy I had a car accident and even though I'm very lucky to be functionally pretty normal I worry how my body would cope with the extra weight and strain.
An easy going approach seems great. Good luck with it all x
I’m 33, so not quite at the 35 year mark yet. However, my husband and I are also thinking of going for our 3rd. My ds is 6 and dd is 5. I’m also apprehensive about going for our 3rd because of my age. Although having a baby in your 30s is incredibly common and usually not a biggie, especially now that many women are become first time mothers after 35, I can’t help but be nervous. It took us 10 months to conceive our first and my hormones have always been a bit whacky (periods are often all over the place). So let’s see how it goes. My husband and I have discussed and we’ve decided to take it easy and not get our hopes up. We are happy with what we have but it would be nice to have a 3rd 
