pradabooties
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Hi everyone,
My partner and I are 23 and have known each other since we were 15 and been together since we were 17.
I'm really unsure of when to start TTC. I've just graduated university and my body is telling me to go for it now... We currently live in a small apartment in the city but are planning to move into a house mid 2015.
Something very on my mind is that my parents are a bit on the older side - my mum is almost 60 and my father is 65. My partners parents are in the same boat. I am only 23 and have no grandparents; all but one passed away before I even reached 5 years old. I feel like I really want to break the cycle in my family of having children later on. I know my Mum would prefer that I spend my early 20s travelling and building my career but I am very aware that if I TTC now and was lucky enough to give birth late next year still it would be unlikely my first child would have any grandparents by the time he/she is my age!
I honestly feel ready and happy to have a baby soon, as does my partner, but I feel like I am choosing between disappointing my Mother and making her (hopefully temporarily) feel like I've ruined my life OR taking away her opportunity to see my children grow up and for my children to have her around.
Does anyone else have these thoughts? xx
My partner and I are 23 and have known each other since we were 15 and been together since we were 17.
I'm really unsure of when to start TTC. I've just graduated university and my body is telling me to go for it now... We currently live in a small apartment in the city but are planning to move into a house mid 2015.
Something very on my mind is that my parents are a bit on the older side - my mum is almost 60 and my father is 65. My partners parents are in the same boat. I am only 23 and have no grandparents; all but one passed away before I even reached 5 years old. I feel like I really want to break the cycle in my family of having children later on. I know my Mum would prefer that I spend my early 20s travelling and building my career but I am very aware that if I TTC now and was lucky enough to give birth late next year still it would be unlikely my first child would have any grandparents by the time he/she is my age!
I honestly feel ready and happy to have a baby soon, as does my partner, but I feel like I am choosing between disappointing my Mother and making her (hopefully temporarily) feel like I've ruined my life OR taking away her opportunity to see my children grow up and for my children to have her around.
Does anyone else have these thoughts? xx