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[scottishgal89]

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[lou_w34]

Awwwwww

He sounds like a right twat, and a bit like my ex, wanting what he cant have, but not really wanting it. He sounds like he is just doing it to scare you, try not to let it work!

And unfortunatley lawyers will advise him to do it, as its generally used as a scare tactic, so they think if they can scare you enough, you will give in to what they want! So try not to worry, because he will never get access alone with her, especially when she is so poorly.

And you are not a bad mum!!!! You are a wonderfull mummy to your little girl, and dont worry because she knows it!

Chin up!

xxx

 

[scottishgal89]

Awwwwww

He sounds like a right twat, and a bit like my ex, wanting what he cant have, but not really wanting it. He sounds like he is just doing it to scare you, try not to let it work!

And unfortunatley lawyers will advise him to do it, as its generally used as a scare tactic, so they think if they can scare you enough, you will give in to what they want! So try not to worry, because he will never get access alone with her, especially when she is so poorly.

And you are not a bad mum!!!! You are a wonderfull mummy to your little girl, and dont worry because she knows it!

Chin up!

xxx

thanks very much for your nice reply!
i try not to let his stupid games get to me but sometimes he really does push me way to far!!
i feel like the only reason he is pushing for it is to get to me- that is not a good enough reason for him to have responsibility of his daughter!

 

[sweetlullaby]

Massive hun.

You know what Im having to go through atm so I will advise and help you as much as I can will post on Tuesday in GS what I get told etc.

I think quite a few of these so called "men" just do it to make our lives difficult etc.

 

[scottishgal89]

Massive hun.

You know what Im having to go through atm so I will advise and help you as much as I can will post on Tuesday in GS what I get told etc.

I think quite a few of these so called "men" just do it to make our lives difficult etc.

thanks babe

i totally agree theyre just being difficult

any help will be appreciated, im just having an off day

how dare he though? like really. its ridiculous! sorry i know your in a crap situation too. i dont wanna be selfish. just really fed up

 

[lou_w34]

Its ok to be fed up we all have our moments, i have many of them lol

and i agree, i think its mainly done to make our lives difficult... try and think of it as a complement, they are that pissed off that we dont want or need them, that they have to interfear! lol

xx

 

[Laura2919]

He sounds like a fool!
Dont think your a bad mummy your the one who has brought her up for all these months. Your doing a great job. He can come with all his crap but it wont change anything.. Play the idiot at his own game x

 

[littlekitten8]

Oh hunni he is just doing it to try to be back in control. He was in control when you were together and he still wants to be in control. As you know FOB is trying the same silly things atm. Saying he wants access etc and then not actually bothering to arrange it. They just want to regain some control and the lawyer is trying to scare you into going with what they want. You know you are doing what is right for your adorable little girl and you are an amazing mum. Just try not to let them get to you....I know its hard. You know where I am and you can call me any time day or night if you need to talk. Sophie is just beautiful and an absolute credit to you. Massive

 

[scottishgal89]

Oh hunni he is just doing it to try to be back in control. He was in control when you were together and he still wants to be in control. As you know FOB is trying the same silly things atm. Saying he wants access etc and then not actually bothering to arrange it. They just want to regain some control and the lawyer is trying to scare you into going with what they want. You know you are doing what is right for your adorable little girl and you are an amazing mum. Just try not to let them get to you....I know its hard. You know where I am and you can call me any time day or night if you need to talk. Sophie is just beautiful and an absolute credit to you. Massive

thanks hunni, i really appreciate it

 

[sweetlullaby]

Massive hun.

You know what Im having to go through atm so I will advise and help you as much as I can will post on Tuesday in GS what I get told etc.

I think quite a few of these so called "men" just do it to make our lives difficult etc.

thanks babe

i totally agree theyre just being difficult

any help will be appreciated, im just having an off day

how dare he though? like really. its ridiculous! sorry i know your in a crap situation too. i dont wanna be selfish. just really fed up

I'll let you know on Tuesday what I get told etc

You're not being selfish at all hun. I hate days like that when you're just fed up with everything and really angry at the crap they come out with.

 

[scottishgal89]

thanks for understanding babe!

 

[mummy_ellie09]

Aww big