Your stories!

[Laura2919]

Hiya. Im sort of new to this section so I wanted to know all your stories. If you want to tell me!!

I split from Chloe and Jaycee's dad 4 weeks ago and I know we arent going to get back together and he has been winding me up by going out nearly every night and I have a short temper when it comes to him and I snap and say nasty things. I am from today taking a not interested view and have already so far had to bite my tongue several times. He says its his way of getting over us and he still cares about me blah blah blah!

How did you all move on? Was it your choice to leave or theirs??

XxX

 

[AppleBlossom]

My ex left me because he was cheating on me with men and couldn't handle the lies he kept telling me because he didn't have the balls to admit it. It took a couple of months but I got over it in the end

 

[scottishgal89]

my ex left me- thank god!
he had been abusing me and i was just too scared to leave him cause of what he'd threatened to do to me.
i got over it because i realised what he had been doing and i just didnt care anymore, the whole thing disgusted me.
i know my stories a bit different from yours but didnt want to read and run

 

[Laura2919]

No I want to know all stories hun. Not just mine. I think we are amazingly strong to have to do it on our own!! Its a terrible thing to have to go through. Seems like a running theme that the OH's arent the greatest! Suppose he was another frog before I find my prince lol xx

 

[sib85]

i split up with the 'sperm donor' 4 days before i found out that i was expecting because he was seeing his ex behind my back! when i told him that i was expecting the first thing he said to me was that his 'new gf' wanted me to have a termination nice a!!!!

He hasnt even seen my gorgeous lil girl and since the day my daughter was born hasnt been in contact its always me phoning him so ive decided that im not going to do it anymore i know i should give him a chance but i dont think he deserves it! he doesnt even know what day she was born even tho he has been told over and over again!

 

[Laura2919]

His girlfriend wanted you to have an abortion?? Is she a nut case?? Lol.

Mark takes an interest in Chloe and Jaycee, Pays me each month on time and every single penny but he goes out too and he hardly ever texts me he just assumes that if Chloe or Jaycee was ill that I would let him know. Maybe he should text me!! I just dont bother now. I know there is someone for me one day who is going to love me to the moon and back and someone that is going to make me happy and I know thats not him!
x

 

[scottishgal89]

me ex and HIS MUM wanted me to have an abortion
thats just wrong in my opinion

 

[sib85]

oh yes his gf is a bit of a nutter lol

 

[Laura2919]

She seems like one! Lol.

I was never asked that cos I think I would have just slapped someone who even dared! x

 

[sib85]

i wish i could i love to see him and slap him he hasnt even seen her yet and she is 5 months old!!! ahhhhhhhhh sorry had to let that one out

 

[Laura2919]

No your right. thats awful! Its not fair that he can just ignore she exists!!!

My ex hasnt even text to ask how his kids are and above I was saying how interested he is! Hmm. Sometimes I wonder!x

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

My Ex was a dirty cheat and slowly moved out without telling me, cos he is/ was ball-less lol! we went shopping one day! and i was putting stuff in the boot! and underneath a blanket was a TV! and an xbox ETC... how dumb can u be lmao... then it dawned on me he had been moving out for weeks! ... hahah we had been together about 3 nd a half years at this point and he is still with the girl he left me for! but he had always been a useless cheat! tbh im just glad to be rid of him now !

 

[QuintinsMommy]

hello, don't post here much, but I'm trying to post in more areas then just teen section...

but my story is
I was with someone for 3 years, we broke up and I "rebounded" and was with the WRONG guy for 3 weeks, 3 week after we broke up I found out I was pregnant, FOB wanted me to keep the baby and give it to him :O, of course I said no way to that!
every few months he talks me, he hasn't seen Quintin, and FOB is always in and out of jail so I don't really want him to.

 

[Alexandra91]

Still waiting for my little boy to get here but i like to come in here to read the stories from you amazing women as it makes me feel better and shows it is possible to do this alone!

i havnt heard from FOB for months, he denies paternity even though we both kno he is the father. Suits me he is a useless druggy with no job and no intention of getting one, in the early days when he liked the idea of being a father he actually said that this meant we can both live in benefits n not have to worry about getting a job as they will give us a house etc. what a loser? I hope my little boy has more ambition when he is older!! lol x

 

[Happybeans]

I Left my ex after 3 yrs of him being violent, physically and mentally and being a complete loser. When he made me sleep on the floor with no covers or pillows at 4 months pregnant i finally realised he weren't never going to change. So i left and went into a refuge. Luckily moved near my parents just before baby was born. I have no contact with ex and neither does my son (hes 4 months). He rings and txs my parents every so often but not until the early hours which just goes to show he is still the useless druggie scumbag he has always been.

I'm hoping my son never has to see him and that one day i will find a man that loves me for me and will love my son as his own.