leoniebabey
mam of 2 boys
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Ah Hun I don't really have any advice sorry. But I am in a similar situation regarding very little help as I am on My own with evan and my family live over 60 mile away, so it's non stop the minute we get up to the minute he sleeps (plus night feeds!!) I find it reall hard sometimes and get stressed and cry holding him.
You are months ahead of me but you are doing a great job, it does seem like he cries an awful lot. I think a chat with hv would be the best thing to see what advice they have, especially as u are on your own.
Big hugs I know I've been no help at all xx
no hun you have been help at least i know im not alone in thinking like this, i feel really ungrateful because i have a beautiful boy who can have a lovely hour but he spends most of the day unhappy and its wearing me down so much.
I think the worst bit is my unsupportive family! They'll come round when im having a shiy day and be like 'oh its a tip in here you need to get things sorted' and it really get to me cause im trying my bloody best but its never good enough for their standards