♡ January Snowdrops 2019 ♡

[Kiwiberry]

We have gas and air in the UK which is half nitrous oxide, half oxygen.. I'm not sure if it's the same thing? But this one I wouldn't say it's as strong as an epidural at all( I've never had an epidural but heard some women sleep on an epidural) but I certainly took the edge off and I kept knocking myself out on it, but it's short lasting and you have to keep breathing it in. Sorry if it's not the same and my info is useless!

Congratulations on the genders! Two more girls, woo I still don't know because they couldn't get a good angle at my scan,aid could be a girl because they can't see a penis, but they also didn't see a vagina.

Yes that is the same stuff! I've had an epidural with both girls but with my second she was born early and I had to be induced, I was in labor for about a week and a half. I did fall asleep after but that was only because I was having contractions for so long and went without sleep the whole time I was in the hospital. with my first, I was put on a magnesium drip to try and stop the contractions, which also made me pass out afterwards. So I'm really unsure if it was the epidural or what I went through with both deliveries that caused me to pass out. It could have been a combination of both. In case I didn't mention this before both girls were born early, my first was born at 27 weeks and my second was born at 34 weeks.

I'm really interested in taking that stuff, I really hate the needles honestly they really scare me.

 

[countryblonde]

Hi ladies! Still here following along!!

Kiwi i used gas for both my labours..I would say more than anything its a distraction. Gives you something else to focus on instead of your contraction.

You are supposed to have a full bladder for the anatomy scan but I dont go crazy and have never had a problem. I have actually had to empty bladder during ultrasounds before because it was too full.

I had one Labour where I had an epidural after 20 hours of back to back contractions that started 5 minutes apart. 20 hours in i was toast and I was so happy I got the epidural because it was still another 9 hours after.

Baby #2 was a whole different ball game. Less than 4 hour Labour start to finish. No time for an epidural. It was intense BUT I intend on going natural again. My recovery was way faster. We'll see what actually happens though.

I have my anatomy scan on Monday!!!!! Im so excited. And I am finally starting to feel this monster kick now and again which gives me a little relief. I have not had one doctors appointment since 12 weeks, so I havent even so much as heard a heartbeat since then....its a long stretch.

 

[RandaPanda]

Good luck on Monday, Country!

I know some people posted about names a while ago. I'm wondering if I can get some opinions on these names here. I posted in the names section, but then noticed it's not a very active board. Before I post them, I should say that we like cute or old fashioned names, and don't care too much if they pass "the Prime Minister test" I'll copy and paste from my other post:

We have it narrowed down to 5 names...I think.
I'll share our last name just so it's easier - MacDougall

1. Ruby Josephine
2. Annie Elspeth
3. Josephine Elspeth Anne (long, I know...we would call her Joey as a pet name)
4. Maisie Josephine (is the alliteration with our last name too much?)
5. Nora Josephine (is it too plain?)

Which do you like/not like?
Brothers are Wylie James and Charlie Alexander

Thank you

 

[Kiwiberry]

I really like Nora and Maisie the most, so cute.

I had a boy name picked out for years but noticed someone else is using it too in the group. So now I'm kinda sad and don't know what to do now if I have a boy.

 

[MissMarpleFan]

I like #1 the best by a lot, then #4.

 

[RandaPanda]

Thank you! My favourites are Ruby, Maisie and Nora. Hoping it becomes clear to me over the next few months

Kiwi, I wouldn't let that stop you from using a name you love!

 

[RandaPanda]

Since this is our first, we aren't too picky on gender. I do have to say that I'm pretty infatuated with the idea of a baby girl, but I will be equally overjoyed if it is a boy. After 4 years TTC and a miscarriage, I just want a baby in my arms.

Sounds like a good way to think about it! I'm excited for you!!
With my first, I kind of hoped it would be a girl, and had always sort of pictured myself with a daughter. But you're right - it really doesn't matter. Suddenly they're here, and it doesn't matter one bit if they're a boy or girl. They are just the person who is perfect for you After feeling like I was a "girl mom", my boys have been, by far, the best thing I have ever experienced.

 

[NovaStar]

Ooh, I love Ruby and Nora. Definitely winners! I tend to gravitate toward shorter names as they feel spunky and sweet. I like simplicity paired with charm and those have both in spades.

Also, I had an epidural and I loved it. Originally I wanted I natural birth but I had to be induced at 38 weeks because of preeclampsia. After about 20 hours they told me it could be another 20 hours and I broke...haha! I got the epidural and ended up dozing a bit (labor started at 9pm the previous night and I hadn’t slept for over 24 hours). It was heavenly. I didn’t feel anything when they put it in. My contractions were so strong. Then she was born about 5 hours later. I was extremely grateful for the epidural and it worked perfectly for me.

 

[Kiwiberry]

I was 2-3 cm dilated with my 2nd and had contractions every 20 minutes for 1 1/2 weeks, they wouldnt let me have any pain meds till I was induced . Let's just say I was exhausted and a huge mess when she finally came at 34 weeks. My sac ruptured, that's why it happened, I had to be on a constant IV drip the entire time I was in early labor and had to pee dragging around the IV every 15 minutes. It was hell ladies!!!!

 

[bbbbbbb811]

We have gas and air in the UK which is half nitrous oxide, half oxygen.. I'm not sure if it's the same thing? But this one I wouldn't say it's as strong as an epidural at all( I've never had an epidural but heard some women sleep on an epidural) but I certainly took the edge off and I kept knocking myself out on it, but it's short lasting and you have to keep breathing it in. Sorry if it's not the same and my info is useless!

Congratulations on the genders! Two more girls, woo I still don't know because they couldn't get a good angle at my scan,aid could be a girl because they can't see a penis, but they also didn't see a vagina.

Yes that is the same stuff! I've had an epidural with both girls but with my second she was born early and I had to be induced, I was in labor for about a week and a half. I did fall asleep after but that was only because I was having contractions for so long and went without sleep the whole time I was in the hospital. with my first, I was put on a magnesium drip to try and stop the contractions, which also made me pass out afterwards. So I'm really unsure if it was the epidural or what I went through with both deliveries that caused me to pass out. It could have been a combination of both. In case I didn't mention this before both girls were born early, my first was born at 27 weeks and my second was born at 34 weeks.

I'm really interested in taking that stuff, I really hate the needles honestly they really scare me.

That is the main reason I've never had an epidural, the thought of a needle going in my back while I'm squirming in pain already(fear I'll move while they are doing it) is enough to put me off but I am lucky that I have short labours, and if I was in labour for days (or a week and half like you!) I think I'd consider one because it would just be exhausting and you need energy to push.

 

[bbbbbbb811]

Good luck on Monday, Country!

I know some people posted about names a while ago. I'm wondering if I can get some opinions on these names here. I posted in the names section, but then noticed it's not a very active board. Before I post them, I should say that we like cute or old fashioned names, and don't care too much if they pass "the Prime Minister test" I'll copy and paste from my other post:

We have it narrowed down to 5 names...I think.
I'll share our last name just so it's easier - MacDougall

1. Ruby Josephine
2. Annie Elspeth
3. Josephine Elspeth Anne (long, I know...we would call her Joey as a pet name)
4. Maisie Josephine (is the alliteration with our last name too much?)
5. Nora Josephine (is it too plain?)

Which do you like/not like?
Brothers are Wylie James and Charlie Alexander

Thank you

I like Ruby and Annie best and think they go well with your other two boys names

 

[mwel8819]

Good morning ladies! I'm 17 weeks today and the shortness of breath is killing me. Anyone else? I've been finding the heartbeat nightly the past week and it is settling around 140-155. I still think a boy. lol!

Randa- For me, I've always heard if you use a long first name to make sure the middle name is super short. That being said, I love long first names for Girls. lol! Ours, if it is a girl, is Gracelynn Mae (Gracie Mae) and our dd's is Gabriella Kae (Gabby Kae). I love the name Nora...it reminds me of my favorite author, Nora Roberts. I love her romance novels. When I hear Maisie, all I think about is the little mouse that doesn't talk that is on cartoons sometimes. lol! I love Josephine but maybe like Josephine Anne. That would be pretty.

I had an epidural and would do it again in a heartbeat. I HATE needles...HATE them. But when I hit 4cm, they offered and I took it. I will be having a section this time as well though as a VBAC is just too risky for this mama. So don't guess I will have a choice. lol!

 

[WantingababyF]

Randa I love Jospehine Elspeth Anne. The idea of calling her Joey for short is so cute. Such a classic name and would definitely stand the test of time.
Kiwi: We have gas and air in Australia too, from what I have been told it can take the edge off however it can give you the light headed doped up feeling. I have also been told it really depends on you, as it can make people Nauseous so some people really don't like it. Im not sure if you have the option in America just to try it and see how you go, but could always have the idea of another Epidural just incase it isn't for you. No harm in trying right?

 

[WantingababyF]

AFM: Another 2 weeks till my Ob appointment and get a quick scan, Then 14th Sept is my Anatomy scan. Its quite late actually as ill be just over 21 weeks.
I am waiting to feel some little movements, just so I know he is okay in there. I have a feeling it might tak awhile as I have an Anterior placenta.
Been a busy week planning my baby shower, I know i shouldn't be planning it but it is very hard when your family is Spread out across Australia and the rest in england, not only that Hubby and I don't have the closest of bonds to his family. We have pretty much done everything for ourselves since we have been 16 years old.

My mum has done a really nice thing for me as she was getting my dad's headstone made up ( sad he will not get to meet his first grandchild) but she put the words dear grandad on it, do everyone know he is the best grandad even though he can't be here.

 

[gigglebox]

Randa, I love Nora as well as Josephine (I love traditionally masculine nicknames or names for girls!). Joey for a girl is just too cute! Nora is so pretty though.

Kiwi now I'm wondering if you were also loving the name Myles? Did you mean someone else in this group? Heck I say use the same name you've been dreaming of. There's virtually no chance the two kids will ever be in the same room together, so why not?

Jamers I know what you mean...I felt that way with ds1. Complicated pregnancy and I really wanted a girl but after I was told baby would likely die before 15 weeks, sex of the baby didn't much matter anymore! I just wanted a healthy baby...and thank God I got him!

Actually thank you for saying that. It helps put things into perspective for me as I'm having a little bit of trouble with the news of a third boy will you be finding out the sex at your ultrasound?

 

[gigglebox]

Wanting, that is so sweet that i'm getring misty-eyed over here!!!

 

[WantingababyF]

Gigglebox: I think ill have abit of a cry when i see it. It is still so fresh, and feels so unreal that he will not be here.

 

[gigglebox]

I am so extremely sorry for your loss. Just curious, will you be naming your little man after him?

 

[WantingababyF]

Yes we will be having his middle name be my dad's name. It will be nice for them to share that together.

 

[mwel8819]

Awww wanting...that's precious. I'm so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine!