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@Suggerhoney that's fab news, congratulations on being team
Glad to see you've got 3+ on your test @Tasha36089 , hopefully worries will ease a little bit for you now
Hope everyone having a good day!
Hi ladies
Just thought I wud keep my promise and let u all in on the gender.
My scan went well and she said baby looks perfect.
Baby was waving so cute.
She took 2 viles of blood, I had the Harmony test done 2 weeks ago but they wanted more blood so that was done today.
We had a high risk screening results for down syndrome so I've been very worried.
Hopefully we will get the results quickly and all will be good.
She said baby looks perfect in the scan.
My hospital screening came back 1 in 33 chance of Downs and 1 in 74 thousand and something for Edwards and Pataus syndrome.
We decided to go for the Harmony test which is non invasive and will give us a yes or no.
Please baby in ure prayers ladies that the bloods come back all good.
All scans have been perfect and NT that's the fluid at back of neck was only 2.0 mm at 12+6 which is well within the normal range so hoping it's just My age throwing it off.
Just want baby to be healthy.
Anyway
We are team
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So happy. Just need good blood results now.
Hope ure all doing good.
She also checked my placenta because of the bleeding I've had thankfully its prosteria and high up.
Here's a little video of baby waving
I’m sorry you’re feeling so stressed. I get it honestly. My partner keeps going on about how happy he is and making plans etc (his first child) and I feel like telling him to shut up. Not because I’m not happy (I am) but I don’t want anything to go wrong. So badly I want everything to be ok.Hey ladies...
firstly, congrats on team blue @Suggerhoney and I’m sure those test will come back and baby will be just fine. He looks healthy and lovely so I hope you aren’t as worried anymore.
@Tasha36089 glad your mind and worry can ease now. It does us no good but easier said than done lol
Afm... I had to take a little break or breather. I was literally snapping on everyone in site. My fiancé and mom were like teaming up against me because my stress is stressing them out. Like my mom knows why I’m so worried but he’s a man and he doesn’t understand. No matter how much I explain he doesn’t get it. But my stressing is taking away from his happiness about the baby. That kinda made me feel bad because I’m not doing it on purpose. I wanna be happy also, it’s just hard when you’re scared to lose another....
It’s crazy cuz back when I had my son, I wasn’t trying and I didn’t know half the stuff I know now and that pregnancy went by like a breeze. I wasn’t checking hcg levels or worried about symptoms. Hell I didn’t have any symptoms lol. Now that I was ttc, I notice EVERYTHING and it sucks... I was driving myself mad. So, I took a breather and sat in my room alone. I prayed and asked God to just help me relax. Whatever will be will be. I can’t speed time along to see if there’s a problem. All I can do is wait one day at a time and try to be happy. I know what a miscarriage looks like and they can’t see ectopic or a healthy pregnancy til later so I’m ok for now. Seeing all those high hcg levels were bumming me out and I’m still spotting. Still dark brown so I’m not worried and I took another test and it’s still good. I don’t have many symptoms besides body aches... at night my back feels like I bench pressed 200lbs but I think that’s when I’m busy throughout the day. I also still cramp a little but not too back. I can’t sleep for shit. It takes me so long to get to sleep even tho I feel so exhausted. That’s about it. Appetite has been weird. I’ll make food and pick at it. I wanted Mexican so my guy went to get it. I’m waiting on that now lol. Anyhoo. I scheduled a dr appt for later. When I know they can see something or hear a heartbeat. Unfortunately I can’t get in til May 10th (which I’ll be 9 1/2 weeks) now but they’ll call me if they get something sooner.
I’m doing what I can for now anyway... taking prenatal and resting. So... patience is all I can have now lol still hoping they call by the 29th or I’ll call them lol
sorry about the book I just wrote lol
Thank you. It’s good to know it’s more common now. As long as it isn’t crimson I’m cool lol. Will be nice for it to completely stop tho.
Hi everyone! Hope you’re all doing well!
@Suggerhoney what a lovely ultrasound! I’m hoping you get soon good news soon
Has anyone been vaccinated while pregnant? My midwife won’t see me until 8 weeks, so I’m stuck with loads of questions until then.
Here’s my test from today. Still not as dark as I hoped, but I guess it’s pretty good for 13 dpo-ish. Bean must have implanted early.
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Hey ladies...
firstly, congrats on team blue @Suggerhoney and I’m sure those test will come back and baby will be just fine. He looks healthy and lovely so I hope you aren’t as worried anymore.
@Tasha36089 glad your mind and worry can ease now. It does us no good but easier said than done lol
Afm... I had to take a little break or breather. I was literally snapping on everyone in site. My fiancé and mom were like teaming up against me because my stress is stressing them out. Like my mom knows why I’m so worried but he’s a man and he doesn’t understand. No matter how much I explain he doesn’t get it. But my stressing is taking away from his happiness about the baby. That kinda made me feel bad because I’m not doing it on purpose. I wanna be happy also, it’s just hard when you’re scared to lose another....
It’s crazy cuz back when I had my son, I wasn’t trying and I didn’t know half the stuff I know now and that pregnancy went by like a breeze. I wasn’t checking hcg levels or worried about symptoms. Hell I didn’t have any symptoms lol. Now that I was ttc, I notice EVERYTHING and it sucks... I was driving myself mad. So, I took a breather and sat in my room alone. I prayed and asked God to just help me relax. Whatever will be will be. I can’t speed time along to see if there’s a problem. All I can do is wait one day at a time and try to be happy. I know what a miscarriage looks like and they can’t see ectopic or a healthy pregnancy til later so I’m ok for now. Seeing all those high hcg levels were bumming me out and I’m still spotting. Still dark brown so I’m not worried and I took another test and it’s still good. I don’t have many symptoms besides body aches... at night my back feels like I bench pressed 200lbs but I think that’s when I’m busy throughout the day. I also still cramp a little but not too back. I can’t sleep for shit. It takes me so long to get to sleep even tho I feel so exhausted. That’s about it. Appetite has been weird. I’ll make food and pick at it. I wanted Mexican so my guy went to get it. I’m waiting on that now lol. Anyhoo. I scheduled a dr appt for later. When I know they can see something or hear a heartbeat. Unfortunately I can’t get in til May 10th (which I’ll be 9 1/2 weeks) now but they’ll call me if they get something sooner.
I’m doing what I can for now anyway... taking prenatal and resting. So... patience is all I can have now lol still hoping they call by the 29th or I’ll call them lol
sorry about the book I just wrote lol
Sorry you've been stressing @realbeauty86 , it's never easy to not worry even without having had a loss before. I hope it gets easier as the weeks go on, and it'll be May before you know it
Your symptoms at the moment sound just like mine, with the backache and cramps, not sleeping etc!
Also congrats @erher, sorry I missed that before
Hope everyone else is doing ok. I find I am getting mild headaches more, but only seems to be in the afternoon onwards?! I read it's likely due to hormones so just something to bear with I think. Back to work tomorrow after a week off as well, not looking forward to it! Even though I work from home, I'm just frustrated with my job lol.
My cheapies are progressing which makes me happy, bottom test is 25 miu and not an early test
Flash was on.
Back to work tonight and I just want to sleep!
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