AlaskaWife
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Hello Everybody.
So my DH and I have been TTC since January 1 2013 (seemed like a good time to officially start such a big journey). I stopped taking my bc about 6 months prior (though to be honest I wasn't even taking it consistently enough before that). However my libido is just not up there and despite how much we both desperately want a child, I just can't seem to force myself to be in the mood much more than usually 2 times a week, sometimes more but sometimes less. Is that enough to actually consider it even trying. I feel so bad but I can't do the deed, if I'm not in the right frame of mind, that wouldn't be fair to my DH or myself.
Anyways most resources say if you are under 35 and have been trying for a year to have your fertility tests done, does our year count? Should we get tested or just keep trying and try to BD more?
Just feeling super down at the moment. We just found out some relatives that weren't even trying are pregnant I mean :thumbs up: You know the feeling.
So my DH and I have been TTC since January 1 2013 (seemed like a good time to officially start such a big journey). I stopped taking my bc about 6 months prior (though to be honest I wasn't even taking it consistently enough before that). However my libido is just not up there and despite how much we both desperately want a child, I just can't seem to force myself to be in the mood much more than usually 2 times a week, sometimes more but sometimes less. Is that enough to actually consider it even trying. I feel so bad but I can't do the deed, if I'm not in the right frame of mind, that wouldn't be fair to my DH or myself.
Anyways most resources say if you are under 35 and have been trying for a year to have your fertility tests done, does our year count? Should we get tested or just keep trying and try to BD more?
Just feeling super down at the moment. We just found out some relatives that weren't even trying are pregnant I mean :thumbs up: You know the feeling.