1 Year

[Becky]

On Saturday it will be one year since Jacobs dad last saw him ........





His loss! x

 

[teal]

You're right - it is his loss! A huge loss!
xx

 

[purpledahlia]

ugh thats disgusting ! totally missing out on a beautiful little boy! definately his loss. x

 

[expecting09]

Agree with the girls! His loss hun x

 

[xxema&bumpmjx]

sorry to butt in ladies

i have a 4 year old her fathers family didnt no she was born untill she was 2 weeks old when they finally rang an my mum brokke the news to them, then her father didnt see her till she was 11 weeks old clearly cos he cudnt be arsed he was in an out of her life 4 the 1st year then sice then i havent seen or heard from him ( hk god hes a total prick ) i had contacted the csa for money an was gettin £5 a week which bearly bought her nappies so i aved the money up an in october i got a letter statin the new rules from the csa (tht i could stop gettin money from him)

so i contacted them an aked for the payments to stop i wrote a letter to the nobhead(ellas dad) with a postal order in with all the money tht i had received sayin to him to cnt be arsed to even write a letter to see how your daughter is so i dnt want her to have your money take it bac an spend it on wht u spend ur money best on ( drugs ).

the point is sorry i had a rant i think if the fob is not intrested in our children then i think our children better with out them at the end of the day we dnt need fob's to help us carry them 4 9months as long as our children have the love an attention of us thts all tht matter ( thts my rant am sorry to go on an on xxxxx

 

[MissE007]

It is their loss.
One day I'm sure they'll regret the decision they've made. But for now, well - they can all go to hell as far as I'm concerned!

 

[hypnorm]

sorry to butt in ladies

i have a 4 year old her fathers family didnt no she was born untill she was 2 weeks old when they finally rang an my mum brokke the news to them, then her father didnt see her till she was 11 weeks old clearly cos he cudnt be arsed he was in an out of her life 4 the 1st year then sice then i havent seen or heard from him ( hk god hes a total prick ) i had contacted the csa for money an was gettin £5 a week which bearly bought her nappies so i aved the money up an in october i got a letter statin the new rules from the csa (tht i could stop gettin money from him)

so i contacted them an aked for the payments to stop i wrote a letter to the nobhead(ellas dad) with a postal order in with all the money tht i had received sayin to him to cnt be arsed to even write a letter to see how your daughter is so i dnt want her to have your money take it bac an spend it on wht u spend ur money best on ( drugs ).

the point is sorry i had a rant i think if the fob is not intrested in our children then i think our children better with out them at the end of the day we dnt need fob's to help us carry them 4 9months as long as our children have the love an attention of us thts all tht matter ( thts my rant am sorry to go on an on xxxxx

Its their loss at the end of the day, but to be honest if you werent using the money, personally i would have put the money in to a savings account for the little one to use, like the child trust fund. I know he shows no interest but he still should be paying something for the child that he helped bring in to the world.
You may have trouble in the future if you want to start the CSA again.

 

[Ash_P]

Its def their loss. My baby isnt even here yet, and I know that FOB is gonna miss out on so much. Cause of his aggressive behaviour and temper I had to get a non-molestation order out against him, so even once baby comes (if he choose to see baby) he cant come anywhere near me, So if thats what he decides to do he will have to see baby in a contact center and have supervised visits.

So he is def gonna miss out on all those special things that parents get to experience. Just because they are complete prats!!

Good thing those wee kids have us to give them the love and attention that they deserve!

 

[AppleBlossom]

Disgusting hun. But like everyone else has said he is better off without him. And so are you x

 

[xxema&bumpmjx]

Its their loss at the end of the day, but to be honest if you werent using the money, personally i would have put the money in to a savings account for the little one to use, like the child trust fund. I know he shows no interest but he still should be paying something for the child that he helped bring in to the world.
You may have trouble in the future if you want to start the CSA again.[/QUOTE]


i lot of ppl ave sed this to me an i thought long an hard about an thts when i decided if hes not intrested in her now he neva will be, the sca advised me if i wanted to start payment up again to contact them an they will set the file bac up but as i sed to them i dnt want the money neva have an neva will if hes intrested in her he will save up for her when shes older an give her the money if she ever wnts to have contact with him (thts her choice as much as he i a nob head when shes older an i tell her tht she has a diffrent dad to the baby an she wants to no things about him i will tell her i will neva slag him of or say wht i think of him cos i belive she shud make her own mind up about him ) xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[starbucks101]

Been nearly 2 years here for my DD1, Best choice he ever made for her was to not be involved, She's got an absolutley amazing Daddy now