10 DPO BFN......And Depressed

[misstia]

Don't have too much to say, I know the test was early and all, but I'm pretty sure it's true. Said I wouldn't cry..... I am.

I want sooo bad to explain to you all how I fell, but I bet you already understand. Yes I could go on and on about how everywhere I go all I see are pregnant women.

To make matters worse, I'm a nursing student and this semester is my OB rotation, so I get to spend every week learning about pregnancy and delivery, working in the NICU and assessing moms and their one and two day old babies......

Not going to class today. Oh and I'm waiting every minute to get a call from my one-on-one, (23 year old, engaged, first pregnancy, wasn't even trying to get pregnant, not even sure she wanted a baby) girl to go into labor so I can be with her and encourage her through her labor and delivery.

Please don't get me wrong, it's only you ladies here that know how I feel on the inside, I have and will continue to support and care for all around me, and I am so happy to be a part of such a special time in anyones life.

Just can't vent to those around me.... I figured maybe someone here would understand.


Thanks for listening.

 

[Sarah27]

Sending you some hugs... Misstia... Life is crappy at times! And I know how you feel I am 12dpo and tested last night BFN.. I dont' know what happened some weird urge just forced me to poas!!! Its hard when no one understands especially when you do everything right and its still no resulting in a bfp! Have you been ttc long? XX

 

[firstLO]

Ahhh don't be too disheartened. As you said, you're only 10 DPO which is quite early still. Give it more time and if AF doesn't come then test again. Just keep believing it will happen and I'm sure your baby will come. Good luck and try to be positive. x

 

[misstia]

Thank you for responding..... It's just hard month after month seeing those BFN's. I have a DD that was born 7/19/07. I have endometriosis and it was really hard to get pregnant with her. So I am all but familiar.

This is why I guess I should just feel very proud and blessed, as some have had and lost, or have not had at all.

Yes I would be content with having just my daughter, I guess I just got all emotional right after the BFN.

Yes I'll probably test again, it not, theres always next month, right???

I wish both of you the best of luck on your ttc adventures. I am here if you ever just need to vent.

 

[JackiePed]

Don't lose hope yet-- most common days to get bfp are 13-15 dpo. 3-5 days can make a huge difference. I got my last bfp (m/c) at 13 dpo, and it was so faint that I KNOW if I had tested 3 days earlier it would have been BFN for sure.

 

[Sarah27]

I know a bit how you feel misstia but like FirstLO said we probably just need some PMA and lots of it!!! I fell pg very easily with both my sons.. sadly my second was stillborn in Feb of this year and the ttc mission is one hundred times harder than its ever been!!! Its hard not to get obsessive and over emotional!! xxx

 

[misstia]

Thank you. I agree it is early, I guess I 'm having my usual PMS symptoms too, so losing hope, but I plan to test again and again, because I and sooo obsessed. Good luck to you too!

 

[JaniceT]

Keep you chin up dear Think positively and all will be ok soon.

I didn't get my BFP until 13 dpo, afternoon. Very faint line. So you're definitely still in the running for it.

Also, if you don't get a BFP this month, you can always try the next month and the month after that without paying tons of money for IVF/ICSI injections. You're already one step up from a lot of other ladies

Here's to wishing you a lovely BFP this time round!

 

[misstia]

Sarah, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I will keep you and your little Matthew in my thoughts and prayers...... yes, it must be very hard trying again. Keep your head up and know that we are here for you!

 

[yumyum1979]

I didnt get mine till 12/13 dpo so dont give up yet and i had no symptoms except sore boobs x

 

[Billyboots]

Hi do t give up yet. I am also 10dpo and had a bfn today. Were still in the running though, not out until the witch gets us and 10 dpo is still early. I testing again in the morning. Fingers crossed for both of us xxx

 

[misstia]

Billyboots.... So happy to have someone in the same boat!!!! I will pray for you tonight!!! I think I might test on Wednesday and Friday. AF due Friday. I figure by then I'll know for sure.

Keep me posted, and best of luck to you!!!!

 

[Mother of 4]

Hoping for for all of you ladies!! I'm 9 dpo and have only gotten so far too. I'm due for AF on the 9th of Oct. so still hoping for a !

 

[Billyboots]

I'll let you know tomorrow what happens. I wish i could hold out until Wednesday but I know I will test every morning now until af or bfp. This is my third cycle xxx

 

[misstia]

Good Luck Ladies!!!!

Will be checking in tomorrow and course throughout the day, just in case some of you try again today

Thanks for joining us Mother of 4!!!

 

[seoj]

Ah hun... I know how tough it is. I'm in the same boat- now 12 dpo and got BFN the other day... still trying to hold out hope it was too early to test... but easier said than done. I had a total melt down today- as I found out my SIL is having a girl... and I'm SO excited for her and my brother- but it's also a reminder of what I want and don't have... that doesn't mean I'm any less happy for them though. They deserve a baby and will make amazing parents!!!!

Life has a way of working out in the end... I remind myself of that daily. lol. So when the rough times come- and they do- I accept it and know it's ok to feel down sometimes... but then I pick myself back up and move on and regain my positive vibes.

Good luck to you!!!!

 

[crystaldrops]

According to statistics, average day to get a false bfn is 10.3 dpo abd average day to get a bfp is 13.6 dpo
Our stress is a faut of hpt producers, who want their tests bought as much as possible :\

 

[misstia]

Seoj according to crystaldrops statistics (which I think I may have seen too)we shold def. not give up hope, and know that there is still a posibility. But of course if all else fail, theres always next month right? I'm sure it will happen when it is supposed to.

Just wish I could get that through my obsessed, impatient head lol!

 

[mtemptress]

i cant imagine how you must feel hun, good luck hun

 

[brutus09]

Sweetie, I'm RIGHT there with you. I am supposed to test tomorrow, but I've tested already twice and the are HUGE BFN's and yes it is hard. I've been crying all day. It is so hard on a woman, men just don't understand. Some people can just think about getting preggo and BAM! or if they don't even want to be they end up that way.

Don't give up hope. I sure won't until comes in full force. Just know, we know how you feel and completely understand. This is such a wonderful board, I've never been on one like this. At least no matter what we do or what happens, you can guarantee that someone on here knows exactly what you are going through. sweetie and don't give up. We are here for you.