11dpo ept - oops.. *added PM FRER* uh oh....

[LeahLou]

Hey ladies, I don't know if y'all remember me.
My hubby and I were TTC for a long time, but I found out some things and decided I needed a break from our marriage, so he moved out. It's been a decent month and we DTD once, but when I looked back it was right in the middle of O week... I don't think I'm pregnant since we tried for near 2 years with multiple mc's, but you never know.

I did an ept this morning with FMU and I'm not sure if I see an evap or I still have line eye



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[Loulabear22]

Ok so I see what your seeing but as all us ladies will say blue dyes are notorious for being bad for evaps! I say try a cheap ic or even a frer and see how it looks then? Xx

 

[Bevziibubble]

I can definitely see it but I agree with testing again with another brand

 

[Charliemarina]

i remember u hun, hope things are ok i did wonder where u had gone off to lol anyways i defo see what ur seeing but id defo try a pink dye as u know blue dye can be evil for false/evaps xx

 

[LeahLou]

Thanks ladies! This was the only test I had on hand. But I'll go get a walmart cheapie or something today or tomorrow. I can't justify spending $12 on FRERs anymore!

 

[Baby.Love12]

Leah! There you are again I was wondering where you went. I am very sorry to hear of your issues with hubby and hope you can work them out. I kinda see something on your test but you know what they say about those blue dyes. Good luck to you!

 

[MeaganMackenz]

Leah! I've missed you! What are you doing with a blue dye test lol you know better .

Hope you're doing well hun!

 

[LeahLou]

I actually haven't had any problems with blue dye!

Guys, I'm FREAKING OUT. This can't be happening.

 

[Baby.Love12]

I see it on the frer

 

[Baby.Love12]

Looked again. Looks bfp to me.

 

[Baby.Love12]

The bottom pic is obvious.

 

[MoBaby]

I see it.... Check in am...how wild would this be

 

[LeahLou]

I'd be so upset. I'm finally getting my space from him and we TTC for so long.. It helped destroy our marriage. I saw how much he wasn't there for me.
I pray this was a faulty test and it will be completely white in the morning.

So sorry to have this break down in front of all you TTC'ers. I just want to move on with my life and find a man that loves and respects my daughter and I. How could I be so stupid?!

 

[Baby.Love12]

Oh leah I know how ugly that feels but god works in mysterious ways. I am so sorry for you that you and tour husband have hit a bump, obviously we dont know what happened but is it so bad that you never see reconciliation in your future? Have you tried counseling?

 

[LeahLou]

Girl, I've tried everything. We were in intense counseling for 7 months. Every week.
He and his mom had, what the counselor called, an emotional incest relationship. Everything is intertwined with her. He was also $50k in the hole and lied about money. It's so co-dependent. He lied to keep a stupid tablet. He lies or "evades the truth" about spending time with her and takes my daughter to see her. He's lazy and doesn't help when I need it. I could go on and on. I can't face having a kid with him. I'm so stupid that I didn't see it sooner. But now I have at least.

 

[Baby.Love12]

Ugh that sucks. What a douche! Im sorry you can find someone much better. Keep us posted.

 

[bundle4me]

Bless you hun. Hope things work out for you x

 

[Bevziibubble]

Keeping my fingers crossed you get the result you want hun

 

[MrsJones1986]

I can't definitely see it!

 

[MrsJones1986]

Sorry stupid predictive! I CAN definitely see it! Sorry!