11DPO - too early to test?

[Beccaface]

Hi girls,

I did a test today - 11DPO, I know I really shouldn't have.
It wasen't my FMU, but it was on a FRER.
FRER boast about 5 days earlier and whatever.
I'm I out? Like do I have no chance now?
I sat here crying and I seem so selfish and pathetic.
There are women out there who have been trying for over 2 years and I've been at it for 2 months and I'm an emotional wreck.
I just see women getting BFP at 9DPO onwards, and I have nothing.
I'm starting to hate this.
Just a little bit of comfort would be nice, please?

Thankyou.
- Help me stop crying.
xxx

 

[lauraclili]

Hi Becca,

Sorry that you got bfn today

FRER only work early if you implanted early and are therefore creating lots of lovely Hcg.

Don't worry though - I think you're still in with a chance as it's probably just too early.

I'd wait a bit longer and test again in a couple of days.

I'm testing on Wednesday (even though I'll only be 12dpo and af not due until the weekend) Do you want to test together and share the joy (or whatever)?

for you this time around.

 

[Beccaface]

Yea I'd really like that.
I have so many promising symptoms.
I just want my baby so much .
xx

 

[Blah11]

I'd test DPO14 with FMU its not over yet hun.

 

[Scarbs]

Hey Becca - so sorry you are so sad. 11 dpo is still very early - so don't give up hope yet! I tested yesterday at 9 dpo (because I also heard of women getting BFP's at 9 dpo haha) and nothing...a BFN...

The best thing for all us impatient-dying-to-be-pregnant women, is to really just wait until AF is due before we test - although that is near impossible, hey???

Your symptoms have been some of the most positive I have read, so hang in there for a few more days - thinking of you x

 

[Beccaface]

Thanks lovey.
Think I'm going to leave it till the weekend now.
To stop causing myself heartache.
x

 

[schnoodle]

hey becca sweetie dont cry hun you may have just tested too early hun try not to worry hunny xxxx i wlways try to wait till 14dpo to test or till after af is due.

hugs babes xx

 

[Beccaface]

Thanks sweetie.
I hope thats true.
Love ya hunny.
xx

 

[Beccaface]

I rang the FR helpline, she said I should of implanted by now.

She's made me feel worse.
x

 

[lauraclili]

Don't cry. You never know until af arrives. It could still be that hcg levels aren't high enough yet.

 

[Beccaface]

But shouldn't it be by now?
Can some women have lower HCG levels?
Im getting little pains in my left side.
Gah.
x

 

[lauraclili]

It is possible to be pregnant and not show a positive result for ages - sometimes even months. Which doesn't help when you're waiting, I know.

If you're still only 11dpo, I'd wait until Wednesday and give it another go.

Still early, still early.

 

[Beccaface]

Ok. I hope so.
Thanks.
Just worried my symptoms have settled.
:/

 

[lauraclili]

Mine too!

But I'm sure everything will be ok!

I have my fingers crossed for us on Wednesday!

 

[Beccaface]

And i have mine crossed for you.
xxx

 

[Jakkiw2]

Hey Becca,

Dont you listen to that FRER Lady, If that be the case we all would be testing early... My Friend didnt test positive until she was 6 weeks no lie ..

Wait till 14 dpo(I obviously dont practive what I preach), then well all have a good sob either way xxxx

Mon, Ill give you a hug xx

 

[Beccaface]

Thanks love.
xxxxxxxx

 

[schnoodle]

oh hun just egnore her she is prob reading from a script, everyone is different hun!it can take up to 12 days to inplant then longer to start producing anough hcg hun xx

 

[Beccaface]

Think I'll test on Thursday.
Then I'm 14DPO.
Can't be done with anymore crying.
xxx

 

[aquila19]

Hey Becca, I totally know where you're going. This is the 4th month that hubby and I have been trying and when AF came last month I was so angry and disheartened... and it was he who brought me back to reality and comforted me. How is your hubby supporting you with all this? Maybe he can provide some comfort.

According to FF, I should be testing this Wednesday... let's regroup then!

And heads up... 11dpo is still waaay early. There is still a chance.