12dpo symptoms almost all gone, AF due in 4 days advice please

[twinsmom328]

HI All!

I have been stalking these boards the last few months and could really use some of your advice and previous experiences with this..

I am almost 36 yo, mother of 9 year old twins from my previous marriage.
I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years, always unprotected and using the pull out method.
I really feel pregnant, have been having cramping, twinges, full feeling, sore full breasts and sore nipps ...all since about 5dpo, and mild backache for last 2 days. I tested bfn at 9, 10, & 11 dpo

Most of these have now disappeared and i feel more like af type cramping now and only slight soreness of my nipps

I know you have probably answered similar post a hundred times, but how many of you have gotten BFP after symptoms went away or became less noticeable

Please help, i'm going nuts and feeling really sad

 

[Hope16]

don't be sad. I'm not really sure what might be going on, but if your tests came out negative it was probably just a different surge of hormones this month. When are you expecting AF?