13DPO, a lil' confused about CM!

[WolfandBear]

Hi there ladies! :wave:
Long time reader, first time poster here
This may be a bit TMI, but im seriously confused with what my CM has been up to
So, SO and I have been TTC for a few months, but this particular cycle we didn't think anything was going to happen because he had to be away around my O time.
We only BD'd once; the day after my period (CD 6), and then he had to go. My problem is, my CM usually goes like this: Period blood, immediately turns into milky water, then EWCM for seven or eight days, and then back to milky water until I bleed again. So it's hard to pin point when I O'd. My tracker app puts my O date at CD 15, and I thought that was that, but I'm having pregnancy symptoms (or maybe I'm just crazy haha!)
Honestly my hopes aren't up that high, but for the past week and a half my CM has been like cloudy whiteish-yellow EWCM, ive never had that before. Two days ago (11 DPO) it had the teeniest amount of pink streaking (implantation???).
AF is due tomorrow (14DPO), but if I'm not pregnant, should this be something I worry about?
To clarify, I guess my confusion is because of when I supposedly ovulated. If I I'd the day my app said I did, his little spermies should have dried up by then, and if I O'd early then my luteal phase was really long (since I saw the teeny bit of blood which I'm assuming was implantation on CD 25)
So, is it possible I'm pregnant? If not, is this mucus something to worry about?
Prayin' prayin' prayin' that maybe somehow someway this could be my month!

 

[xarlenex]

You would only need to be concerned about it if there were a smell from it or you felt itchy or anything else unpleasant down there.
With my DD I had lots of cm early pregnancy, I think it's something to do with it forming the mucous plug in the cervix. That being said, there's many reasons our cm can change month to month. I hope it leads you to a bfp!

 

[WolfandBear]

okay cool
yeah there isn't any smell or itching or anything like that, I was just weirded by CM I've never seen before! FX for a bfp, I'll be testing tomorrow if never comes!
Do you think it's possible, considering when BD happened?

 

[WolfandBear]

Alrighty, so, new developments, still super confusing!

My AF was due to start today, and usually on the day it starts it picks right up at medium flow with clots, second day is so heavy I need to change a tampon every hour or so, lots of clots, and then the next 3 days are medium flow, and then it just stops. First day always come debilitating cramps, I have to take two doses of Advil and a dose of Midol all at once just to be able to walk.
Now for what's actually happening:
came right on schedule, but light flow. I figured I was out of the game, figured it was rapidly going to get heavy, and stuck a tampon in there. When I changed it maybe an hour later (what I'm used to having to do) barely a fifth of it was full, most of it was either pink or brown, and it was all covered in shiny, stretchy mucus.
I'm also only cramping the teeniest bit, and it feels different/is in a different place than I usually get them.
I've had an ectopic before (caught early, no problems) and while it didn't present this way, could that be what's going on now?
Now I don't know if I should hope for or not, because I'm worried if it is, it'll be ectopic
Anyone have any thoughts?

 

[xarlenex]

All you can really do is test, if it's bfn I'd assume it's the start of your period. If you only had sex CD 6 but don't think you ovulated until cd14-15 then I guess it's pretty unlikely you'd be pregnant, although not impossible because you could have ovulated earlier xx

 

[bumpbug]

Very unusual.

I'd say the spermies would have died by then I think longest is 5 days?.
But miricales happen and ovulation can happen earlier!

You could of ovulated 5-6 days after your period. I can't say it's common, but woo things happen!
Bodies are weird.

I wish you all the best xoxoxo

 

[WolfandBear]

Boobs starting to really hurt, nausea is getting worse, and nips are getting dark (down there area too...) but still bleeding.
Seems to be steady flow, but much lighter than my normal flow. Different color too
I honestly don't think I'm pg but I am a lil' confused. I'll test after flow dries up, just to put my mind at rest, and call my ob.gyn either way to see what's up
Will keep this thread updated in case anyone has a weird cycle like this in the future

 

[WolfandBear]

Also, thank you ladies for your replies, I'm not really sure what's up right now. There were a few days I was really hopeful, but now I just wanna make sure everything is okay down there
You're right I don't think his little soldiers coulda survived that long, but if there's even a little chance, ill take it!