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I was wondering if anyone can help me with this one.
We currently live in a 2 bedroom house. Can't afford to move. LO is driving me crazy sometimes with lack of sleep and feel that he can benefit from his own room now, even for the mountain of toys that are piled up in the house. I don't feel it is fair to ask my teenager to now share his room with a baby. LO still in with us just now. Because of the layout of the bedrooms none can be split to make a 3rd room. Have looked into building an extension but finances just can't afford it.
Now baby is 16 months and I feel I have to do something because anything I have came up with in the past just won't work or not affordable.
Anyway our house has a garage but it is not attached to the house and is at the bottom of the drive. The original plan was to wait until our eldest was maybe at Uni (his current plans!), convert the garage so that he can have his own wee bit of independence but also be close to home. My son has said he is quite happy to do it now but I think he is still a bit young. What do you ladies think? (PS Maybe I am being a bit overparanoid here but he was involved in a bad accident last year but luckily made a full recovery apart from not having proper feeling down his left side)
The other options I have are to buy a sofa bed and sleep in the living room again - reminds me of my teenage years just setting out!! But would probably still need to convert the garage for our eldest once he is older.
What do you think and has anybody been in a similar position and if you have what did you do?
Thanks in advance
We currently live in a 2 bedroom house. Can't afford to move. LO is driving me crazy sometimes with lack of sleep and feel that he can benefit from his own room now, even for the mountain of toys that are piled up in the house. I don't feel it is fair to ask my teenager to now share his room with a baby. LO still in with us just now. Because of the layout of the bedrooms none can be split to make a 3rd room. Have looked into building an extension but finances just can't afford it.
Now baby is 16 months and I feel I have to do something because anything I have came up with in the past just won't work or not affordable.
Anyway our house has a garage but it is not attached to the house and is at the bottom of the drive. The original plan was to wait until our eldest was maybe at Uni (his current plans!), convert the garage so that he can have his own wee bit of independence but also be close to home. My son has said he is quite happy to do it now but I think he is still a bit young. What do you ladies think? (PS Maybe I am being a bit overparanoid here but he was involved in a bad accident last year but luckily made a full recovery apart from not having proper feeling down his left side)
The other options I have are to buy a sofa bed and sleep in the living room again - reminds me of my teenage years just setting out!! But would probably still need to convert the garage for our eldest once he is older.
What do you think and has anybody been in a similar position and if you have what did you do?
Thanks in advance