16 and pregnant. NEED A FRIEND

[LilNugget]

Well I missed my period, since I got off birth control my period had always started on the 18th, plus I know my body very well, and my breasts started getting sore a week before my period was due and they usually only get sore a day or two before I'm due. Me and my boyfriend had sex on halloween.. Lol the 31st. So now it's the 30th,I've been throwing up past couple days, having so many food aversions, so nauseous ALL THE TIME, anyways I was gonna tell my parents today or tomorrow, I know they're going to be mad because in April I got pregnant and was pressured to get an abortion. I'm not doing that again, this time I'm dealing with the consequences. I'm just so lonely I feel like I'm going through it all alone, I'm scared! I don't know who to relate to, how to feel, what do what to think, how to keep my baby safe or anything. I'm just flat out scared.

 

[KatieMichhele]

first of all you should really take a test, if your deffinatly pregnant then a big congratulations and a happy and healthy nine months, dont feel pressured into anything it's your descision to make if you ever need to talk then message me xx

 

[xVAP]

Like Katie said, you cant be 100% until you take a test. But good luck and if you are pregnant, congratulations. I'm Vy, I'm 17 and I'm about 8 weeks pregnant.

 

[LilNugget]

Like Katie said, you cant be 100% until you take a test. But good luck and if you are pregnant, congratulations. I'm Vy, I'm 17 and I'm about 8 weeks pregnant.

Yeah but since I've been pregnant before these were the exact symptoms I had, I have always kept a close look out on my body, I know that I am for sure but I should probably take a test!! And thank you so much

 

[LilNugget]

first of all you should really take a test, if your deffinatly pregnant then a big congratulations and a happy and healthy nine months, dont feel pressured into anything it's your descision to make if you ever need to talk then message me xx

Yes definitely I will for sure message you sometime thank you!

 

[caandii]

Defo take a test 1st hun. I knw I'm a bit older thn u (20) nd very pregnant (35 weeks) bt I'm more thn happy 2 chat if u wanna

 

[bsd]

Take the test before you talk to them to avoid any unnecessary confrontation! I was in the same boat as you when it comes to 'knowing your pregnant' because I also had been on and off birth control since I was 14, and knew how my body reacted to it very well! In February 2011 I got pregnant (days before I started taking the pill again) and I just knew it even though every test came back negative! My boobs were the worst symptom, something I had never experienced before so I knew it was pregnancy! I ended up miscarrying sadangel: ) And I was so upset with myself that I listened to all the negative tests instead of my own instincts!!

SO this time around when I got pregnant I felt the soreness in my boobs and just knew. There was only one other time that I had felt that so I couldn't have been more sure! BUT just in case you should test before you talk to your parents because if you aren't than you really do want to avoid that conversation if it's not needed.

I'm so sorry you were pressured before, that makes me so upset! Try not to let them pressure you this time, it's 100% your decision!

 

[ClairAye]

Definitely test! It's not 100% unless you test
But feel free to message me if you like, sound like you will get a though!

EDIT: Yeah forgot to mention as the poster below said this may get locked as you have to know for sure (from a test) that you are pregnant to post here, just a heads up!

 

[lizmageeful]

Hey, This thread will probably be closed because you dont know for sure you're pregnant, but in the mean time, I'm Lizzie, 16. Im 19 weeks with a baby boy, and feel free to message me whenever!

 

[kimberleyrobx]

take a test, and congratulations if you are! with my first my boyfriend broke up with me numerous times because he was too scared to be a dad, and i very almost went along with his wishes to abort. very glad i didnt, everything always works out in the end, you'll be fine x

 

[MummyMana]

Never let anyone pressure you into anything! Remember, it's not their choice! Hope everything goes well

 

[jackiemullins]

Take a test. I thought I was pregnant twice before I actually ever got pregnant. I had the same symptoms as you, but I found out each time I was not pregnant. Tests are to be 100% sure. You don't have to buy one. You could go to a clinical and pee in a cup for them. Anyway, if you are, I'm Jackie. I'm 16. I'm 21 weeks and 1 day pregnant.

 

[lil lovey]

Take a to know for sure. And if you are congrads. Please don't be pressured again to have an A. I'm Lovey,17 and 34 weeks preggers with my first.

 

[LilNugget]

Take the test before you talk to them to avoid any unnecessary confrontation! I was in the same boat as you when it comes to 'knowing your pregnant' because I also had been on and off birth control since I was 14, and knew how my body reacted to it very well! In February 2011 I got pregnant (days before I started taking the pill again) and I just knew it even though every test came back negative! My boobs were the worst symptom, something I had never experienced before so I knew it was pregnancy! I ended up miscarrying sadangel: ) And I was so upset with myself that I listened to all the negative tests instead of my own instincts!!

SO this time around when I got pregnant I felt the soreness in my boobs and just knew. There was only one other time that I had felt that so I couldn't have been more sure! BUT just in case you should test before you talk to your parents because if you aren't than you really do want to avoid that conversation if it's not needed.

I'm so sorry you were pressured before, that makes me so upset! Try not to let them pressure you this time, it's 100% your decision!

This time I'm keeping it. And trust me I know, I got the sore breasts and now recently I've been getting light lower abdominal cramps and have been SO NAUSEOUS, I don't just throw up every day for no reason , I've thrown up everyday for the past 4 days and havent been ablee to eat a lot :/ it's been about 2 weeks since my period was due, also I'm SO HOT ALL THE TIME, and this is EXACTLY what it was like the last time I was pregnant.

 

[LilNugget]

THANK YOU SO MUCH EVERYONE!'n

 

[bsd]

Keep us updated good luck hun!

 

[haydenmummy]

Heyyy I'm hillary 19 and I have two baby's I have a son hu is 3 an half and a daughter hu is 8 days old I was 16 when I had my son if you need to talk hun pm me anytime xx

 

[Abeera]

Hi!

I'm abeera and I'm also new here. Being scared is normal I think. I found out a week ago and I haven't told anyone and not even my boyfriend. You should really not get pressured into doing something like that if you don't want. I know my parents would want the same but I will not do it at all. And have you told your boyfriend?

 

[JessicaM123]

Obv take a test, but if you want some reassurance, 4 weeks is very early for morning sickness to start, mine didnt till around 8-9 weeks but i guess it varys for everyone. But i wouldnt use that symptom as you definitley are.
But take a test nonetheless

 

[heyitsme02]

Heyy im Denise and im 16 and pregnant too. i just found out a couple days ago. Ugh and i know how you feel . Message me girl !