16 DPO BFN No AF...Why Do I Bother?

Discussion in 'Trying To Conceive #1' started by Stinas, Jun 5, 2011.

  1. Stinas

    Stinas Twin Mommy!

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    Super frustrated!!! 16 DPO no AF and bfn. Why do I even bother to poas? All it does is depress me. Can't help but wonder is there something wrong with me? Why all these symptoms and nothing. My boobs are a full cup bigger but do not hurt anymore. I did everything right this cycle. Ovulated may 20 pos on cb digital am and pm neg day before and after. Bd ever other day all month and made sure to bd ovulation day. What's wrong?!!! Is it because I have irregular cycles? Can I get a positive later because of that? I'm just super frustrated. Thanks for letting me vent!
     
  2. bunni84

    bunni84 Well-Known Member

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    have you done opks before? coz once you establish when you O and when AF starts thats your luteal phase, and that never changes, luteal phase is always same unless ur preg, its just O that changes. So say you O cd14 and AF comes cd30 then luteal phase is 16 days, so whenever you O, you know 16 days after AF will show, if AF doesnt show after 16 days then u could be preg

    16 days luteal phase is normal....if you still getting BFNs and no AF a week later go doc....
     
  3. kimberly17

    kimberly17 Well-Known Member

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    I know its hard, but do something today that will take your mind of it. Try not to think about it so much, and do something for you.
    Good luck to you!
     
  4. Stinas

    Stinas Twin Mommy!

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    I spoke too soon! AF got me once I got to work...cramps galore.
    Its sooo frustrating!! Im so upset!

    Thanks Bunni! I never understood the Luteal phase.
     
  5. bunni84

    bunni84 Well-Known Member

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    aww....i was so hopeful it would be a BFP for you
     

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