Jennifurball
Mother of 1 and a bump!
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Hi,
As it's been 5 years, my memory isn't very good as to what happens at the 16 week appointment?
I also want to erase the FOB details on my maternity notes as he has been abusive, nasty, harassing and isn't part of my life anymore, don't want him anywhere near my children.
I don't want him anywhere near me, or knowing anything, especially in labour so I am not in a situation where I can barely function and he turns up (unlikely but still worries me!)
I am just worried if I do confide in the mw about my problems with him, which are quite bad. Will it open a can of worms? Being a single mum to almost 2 children, will they involve social services etc. I just want to be left alone, but at the same time feel they need to be aware so he can't be involved.
Any advice welcome.
As it's been 5 years, my memory isn't very good as to what happens at the 16 week appointment?
I also want to erase the FOB details on my maternity notes as he has been abusive, nasty, harassing and isn't part of my life anymore, don't want him anywhere near my children.
I don't want him anywhere near me, or knowing anything, especially in labour so I am not in a situation where I can barely function and he turns up (unlikely but still worries me!)
I am just worried if I do confide in the mw about my problems with him, which are quite bad. Will it open a can of worms? Being a single mum to almost 2 children, will they involve social services etc. I just want to be left alone, but at the same time feel they need to be aware so he can't be involved.
Any advice welcome.