oh_socold
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I havent told anyone in my family yet, and I thought maybe the Teen Pregnancy section would be able to help me. I am not a teenager I am 23 years old, a college graduate and live on my own. However, I recently lost my job and have been looking for work. My mother has been helping me. My boyfriend also is not working hell be finishing school by the time the baby is born. We live together, yet my family doesnt know about that either.
My dilemma is I would like to tell my family within the next 4 weeks. I am going to try to tell them but I always chicken out. I live 3k miles away and I cant wrap my head around how to tell her. She calls me usually when she is upset with something or my sister, we rarely even talk anymore. I have thought about sending a letter, but I know it wont even get to her before my sister sees its from me and opens and reads it. I could send an email, but the email she checks is her work email and I dont want to do that to her at work. I could always send her a facebook message, she may check that at home. I just dont know what else to do.
Anyone have any advice? Anyone have a lot of difficulty telling their parents? Once I tell my mom and have her support, telling my dad will be easy because I can just hang up on him if he pisses me off.
My dilemma is I would like to tell my family within the next 4 weeks. I am going to try to tell them but I always chicken out. I live 3k miles away and I cant wrap my head around how to tell her. She calls me usually when she is upset with something or my sister, we rarely even talk anymore. I have thought about sending a letter, but I know it wont even get to her before my sister sees its from me and opens and reads it. I could send an email, but the email she checks is her work email and I dont want to do that to her at work. I could always send her a facebook message, she may check that at home. I just dont know what else to do.
Anyone have any advice? Anyone have a lot of difficulty telling their parents? Once I tell my mom and have her support, telling my dad will be easy because I can just hang up on him if he pisses me off.