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This is my usual bug bear. I struggle to find the guts to tell my side of the family that we are expecting again. Hubby told his family and they were surprised, as I expected, but they are his family so he can deal with that part lol! I don't need to hear the whys or moaning lol.
I know I need to at least tell my mum soon, as I'm starting to show and we meet up for coffee once a week and there's only so much covering up I can do with my cardigan, but I just don't want to have to deal with her reaction, which will no doubt be of disappointment and 'why?'. The worst one will be my gran as she's not very sympathetic and sees all of life's minor ups and downs as disasters! Unless it's something fantastic, she can't deal with it and will worry herself sick with possible problems. Urrrgh! telling my dad doesn't really worry me too much, although I don't suppose he would be impressed either. Gosh, you wouldn't think I was a 33 year old married woman! Keep thinking I just won't tell them until I have to
Every time i get pregnant, I find myself in this same predicament. Trying to find the guts to tell everyone. Silly thing is I told all my friends and acquaintances and they were happy for us and wished us all the best etc.
Any advice please? Xxx
I know I need to at least tell my mum soon, as I'm starting to show and we meet up for coffee once a week and there's only so much covering up I can do with my cardigan, but I just don't want to have to deal with her reaction, which will no doubt be of disappointment and 'why?'. The worst one will be my gran as she's not very sympathetic and sees all of life's minor ups and downs as disasters! Unless it's something fantastic, she can't deal with it and will worry herself sick with possible problems. Urrrgh! telling my dad doesn't really worry me too much, although I don't suppose he would be impressed either. Gosh, you wouldn't think I was a 33 year old married woman! Keep thinking I just won't tell them until I have to
Every time i get pregnant, I find myself in this same predicament. Trying to find the guts to tell everyone. Silly thing is I told all my friends and acquaintances and they were happy for us and wished us all the best etc.
Any advice please? Xxx