Thanks ladies, I don't chart really I just have this app on my iPhone that I use for symptoms and it tells me when I should have ovulated and am fertile. I'm not 100% sure if a did ovulate though.
I'm now 5 days late and had been having brown discharge for a couple days that has now stopped and there is nothing.
I guess I'll test again tomorrow if there is still no sign of af.
I'll keep everyone posted.
Ps I'm really starting to freak out here, I just want to know either way so I can stop stressing about it!