19th October Ladies ... **5 Births Already**

[nypage1981]

Now I dont think im done yet! However, I have to soul search before trying again, as to get this one it was 2 years and 2 miscarriages and a lot of heart ache.....and the first trimester of THIS one I bled and thought it was over the whole time. So hard, but now that im here, of course, its worth it. But its just a lot to go through so I will have to see how I feel once Bean is here. Maybe he will just complete it all and I will "know" that im done. Or he will make me want one more child even more! I always wanted 3 so if I hurry, since im older and so is OH, then we can get one more maybe if we dont have trouble conceiving like we did with this lil guy.

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Ooo!! You may be able to use ava afterall
Ahh it must be soo hard having gone through miscarriages

Ikno what u mean , OH only wants 2 kids but i just cant imagine this being my last pregnancy
We will hafto see what the future brings xx

 

[Phantom710]

Well he's going to be Cody Lukas as everyone knows Hehehe

I think next baby will be hard as hubby wants to stay team yellow :S hahaha

 

[nypage1981]

Kerri- was super hard Especially the second one...we didn't think anything wrong when we went in for an US at 9 weeks....its hard to be pregnant and just wonder what that baby would have been, and thinking that this would be my third....seems like a lot of wasted time since we are older.

Michelle----Ooooh team yellow would be fun. I wanted that this time around but OH couldn't wait! I think if we do it again I should get my turn! Plus, I have a feeling I may be slightly devastated if its not a girl...I may have to look into some superstitious rituals while making the baby that some people believe make girls! Lol.

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Would be lovely to stay team yellow but i would be sooo impatient!! xx

 

[Phantom710]

I'm a baby-shop-a-holic. hehe. I think Ill get so bored of neutral colors.

But, as I got my wish this time, I guess it's fair for us to be yellow next time. Especially as that will be our last pregnancy.

We are hoping to adopt our third and final child

 

[nypage1981]

I really want to adopt an older toddler to bridge teh gap between Ella and the baby. But OH thinks to get them older is too dangerous. Opinions?

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Kerri- was super hard Especially the second one...we didn't think anything wrong when we went in for an US at 9 weeks....its hard to be pregnant and just wonder what that baby would have been, and thinking that this would be my third....seems like a lot of wasted time since we are older.

Oh how awful nicole I cant even begin to imagine how horrible that would of been xx

When your little man arrives hes gonna be extra special xx


Ooo adoption michelle, Im not sure i could do that after having my own children, Ive no idea why i would be scared that i wouldnt love the child as much as my own and it wouldnt be fair xx
Suppose thats just my opinion..... its a lovely idea to give a child a chance like that xx

one of my friends wants to adopt ... she has 3 kids already , her husband is not keen tho x

 

[nypage1981]

It would be hard for sure...specially if I didnt do it from babyhood! But I think I could do it....just hard to find a child in US that doesn't have special needs and I honestly don't want to adopt a special needs child.

 

[x-TyMa-x]

No i agree it would be difficult as it is without having special needs too , that would be alot to take on especially having 2 children of your own xx

 

[x-TyMa-x]

My midwife has just phoned me and said that i need another flu jab??
I had a flu jab done in feb this year not long after i found out i was pregnant, yet the Dr has advised that im to get another as its a new strain.

Anyone else having this??

Also my blood iron levels have increased from 10.5 to 11.4 x

 

[Phantom710]

I'll admit that fear is kinda there in the back of my mind, and I think i would only adopt a child that was really young, they wouldn't need to be a new born, but not sure I could do a toddler.

I was surprised hubby was the one to bring it up. I always kinda thought it would be nice, as both my biological parents were adopted as infants, and I think there are so many kids needing homes, I'd like to help in that way. I never mentioned it to DH and one day we were talking and he brought up that he would like to adopt.

In fact, he'd be fine with this being our only biological child and adopting the other two, but I want at least one more pregnancy hehe


I've not been advised for a flu shot, but they are starting to advertise them, since the season is coming. I didn't even know you could get one while pregnant. LOL

 

[nypage1981]

I was told my appointment on wed to get the flu shot next week at my next one...they were out that day. He said with a new baby, your whole family, and other children should get it so they dont get baby sick but if you get yours and are breast feeding you pass immunities to the newborn too.

 

[ay2808]

I'm getting my flu jab the first week of October. I don't usually have one but I did get mild swine flu 2 years ago which really knocked me out. I can't imagine giving birth or having a newborn with flu as well.

 

[sam#3]

Just had to share this uber cute piccy of my little Harry modelling my birth pool today

 

[x-TyMa-x]

HaHa hes so cute! Great Birthing pool too How exciting to think you will be having your baby in there!! x

Did you use a birth pool with any of your others ... sorry if youve already told me but i forgot lol xx

 

[sam#3]

I really am excited now... i was just sat in there almost willing labour on!!!

This is the pool i used for harry that i laboured in but i birthed him on dry land as he was coming out face first!!

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Awwww im excited for all our little ones to be here!!

3days left till full term! Altho seen as most of you ladies are either having sections/being induced or really low & engaged like yours sam ....... Looks like i will be last

 

[sam#3]

I bet you wont... i think im going to go at least a week over

 

[x-TyMa-x]

Hmmmmm ive got the feeling im gonna end up going overdue again too Im just praying i wont need induced x