My birthday is December 17th and my mom's is December 22nd. What I hated the most was when people said, "This is for your birthday and Christmas." No kid wants to hear that shite. lol Even though the timing was bad, my mom always made sure I had a cake a few birthday gifts. Looking back, it was so easy to shop for my kids when they were small. You can buy a ton of cheaper gifts and they'll love them..anything that makes noise and lights up! Now that they're 11 and 9, they want high dollar items and lots of 'em.