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Hey, sorry I haven't posted for ages, been a bit busy so just been having the occasional read on here.
anyways... went to my first midwife appointment today and as soon as I walk in she went to me and said
"I've been looking at your medical history and taken in to consideration your age...are you happy to be pregnant?"
I said kind of but its more of a shock really and the fact that I still expect something to happen.
she goes to me and say's.
"I don't think this is the best idea for you right now. With your history"
Erm... Since when did having bipolar make people a bad mum!?!?
I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't take drugs and I have worked with children for 2 years now and only once had a problem at work and that was with management there thinking I wasn't capable yet every where else I worked has been fine with me.
I had to convince her that I was fine and that I could cope. Im un-medicated at the minute which im managing really well and my care worker has said im thinking clearly.
How dare she try and convince me to do something im completely against.
I also now have 7 holes in my arms from the blood test where they ended up using a syringe because none of my veins are visible and you can't feel them its just a matter of trying just about anywhere.. finally we got there.
I've now been told I have to tell my parents (I know I should have told them already) as I will be having regular visits from the health visitor at my house.
She was lovely and everything but doesn't seem to like teen parents and especially ones with mental health problems...
she also told me that even though through scans I should be 8 weeks 5 days the hospital will still use 10 weeks 5 days for my dating till the scan :/ ah well...sorry rant over
Oh and FOB is not speaking to me won't reply to my texts even though it says they've been read ...
anyways... went to my first midwife appointment today and as soon as I walk in she went to me and said
"I've been looking at your medical history and taken in to consideration your age...are you happy to be pregnant?"
I said kind of but its more of a shock really and the fact that I still expect something to happen.
she goes to me and say's.
"I don't think this is the best idea for you right now. With your history"
Erm... Since when did having bipolar make people a bad mum!?!?
I don't drink, I don't smoke, I don't take drugs and I have worked with children for 2 years now and only once had a problem at work and that was with management there thinking I wasn't capable yet every where else I worked has been fine with me.
I had to convince her that I was fine and that I could cope. Im un-medicated at the minute which im managing really well and my care worker has said im thinking clearly.
How dare she try and convince me to do something im completely against.
I also now have 7 holes in my arms from the blood test where they ended up using a syringe because none of my veins are visible and you can't feel them its just a matter of trying just about anywhere.. finally we got there.
I've now been told I have to tell my parents (I know I should have told them already) as I will be having regular visits from the health visitor at my house.
She was lovely and everything but doesn't seem to like teen parents and especially ones with mental health problems...
she also told me that even though through scans I should be 8 weeks 5 days the hospital will still use 10 weeks 5 days for my dating till the scan :/ ah well...sorry rant over
Oh and FOB is not speaking to me won't reply to my texts even though it says they've been read ...