2 and a half years now!!!! Feeling down..

[rustyswife828]

Okay so I'm 26 and my OH is 30. We've been married for almost 6 years.

I've been off of BC for almost 3 years.
We weren't officially trying but just having fun cause we didn't want the stress of TTC...

Well now it's officially going on 2 1/2 years and no yet!!

Almost everybody I'm friends with on Facebook has kids or is pregnant!

Just found out one of my bridesmaids received her and they've only been married for 1 1/2....

Beginning to get to the point where I'm not happy for anyone cause we're having difficulties!!

Can't stand when people tell me
"Your time will come"
"Just have fun it'll happen"
"It's in God's time"

I'm losing faith in God cause its hard to see everybody get pregnant and we're longing for a child!!

Feeling so down!

We're scheduled to go see my new OB/GYN this month so I'm hoping he can get us pregnant!!!

 

[Jziller]

Okay so I'm 26 and my OH is 30. We've been married for almost 6 years.

I've been off of BC for almost 3 years.
We weren't officially trying but just having fun cause we didn't want the stress of TTC...

Well now it's officially going on 2 1/2 years and no yet!!

Almost everybody I'm friends with on Facebook has kids or is pregnant!

Just found out one of my bridesmaids received her and they've only been married for 1 1/2....

Beginning to get to the point where I'm not happy for anyone cause we're having difficulties!!

Can't stand when people tell me
"Your time will come"
"Just have fun it'll happen"
"It's in God's time"

I'm losing faith in God cause its hard to see everybody get pregnant and we're longing for a child!!

Feeling so down!

We're scheduled to go see my new OB/GYN this month so I'm hoping he can get us pregnant!!!

I totally know how you feel. We have been trying for the same amount of time as you. My best friend just told me just pregnant and she got pregnant the first month off then pill. This is her second kid and they were trying for a girl so they only had sex a few days before ovulation and it worked. My mom's response was that " God has a plan." I hate that saying. I almost have no faith in God anymore. I'm also upset becuase my friend who is now pregnant is really the only one who I could confide in about the ins and outs of all my treatments. I feel like I won't be able to that anymore. I feel lost and hopeless at this point.

 

[saveme]

Hi girls, I know it's hard seriously I've had 3 pregnancies all failed
please don't give up me and my DH have been together for 10 years and married for 4 of them. At first we weren't trying either, but after 3 yrs post my 1st ectopic we tried, yes we got pregnant the first actual ttc try but it ended horribly. Ladies please don't give up your faith in God seriously He really does have your best interest at heart. I know the pain of not getting pregnant for a long time, loss of pregnancies, and the heartache of everyone around you pregnant. My besties are as follows= 21weeks, 20, and 19 weeks I'm the only one not pregnant Of course I'm mad and hurt, upset and for a minute I doubted my faith in God but I have to believe God will bless us. I pray for you all and ladies seriously I think you will be pregnant, and it will be that much better cause it's wanted so badly. Don't want to barge in with my uppity attitude I really wish you all the best.

 

[Hatethewait85]

I can definitely relate!!

We've been ttc for a little over 2 years with no luck! I'm beginning to wonder if my body even knows how to get pregnant! None of the tests have been revealing, so aside from being surrounded by pregger friends, not knowing what's causing the struggles is the hardest part. We started seeing a fs in July, and just had our second iui this past weekend. I hope you get some answers with your new doc this month!

 

[miana]

I know how you feel DH and I have been trying for nearly 2 years. It all started out as fun and games thinking there would be no issue getting pregnant within 6-12 months? 2 years later and nothing!

We have been seeing a fertility doctor for about last 6 months and all tests have come back good. Ovulating right on time every month day 10/11, cycle of 26/27 days, levels fine, mucus fine (sorry tmi) etc.
I never suspected anything was wrong but when it doesn't happen for a long time you start to worry anyway.

It's just so frustrating

Friends of ours took 4 years to conceive their first......but I REALLY don't want to have to wait that long?!

But I just keep telling myself it will happen when it happens and to still be happy for those that are successful Karma ha ha

 

[Prayingforno1]

We are all in the same boat, it can be so hard to be happy when someone announces their pregnancy when you've ben trying for such a long time. It's even harder for me because we've kept our struggles to ourselves so no one knows we are even ttc. I have my good and bad days as well but recently more bad as we have so many pregnancies in my office and family. I feel like everyone is getting their BFP but me but I know everything in God's time and when he knows the time is right I and all of you will get that BFP to start our journeys to motherhood. I can't wait so I can hold, squeeze and kiss my baby and show him/her all my love and I know that after such a long and stressful journey, I will truly appreciate being a mother even more. Stay strong ladies.