2 bfn

[Angel022605]

Anyone ever been 8 days late with 2 BFN? If so what was the reasoning? What's your story? I'm depressed and a little scared something else is wrong. I don't have the $ for a major surgery or extensive testing. What's everyone's advice? Only thing I know is I've had a low iron count before and that delayed AF. Only other thing I know to do is call my OB first thing mon provided AF doesn't show and if she does I'll be ok. 😔 support would be good too.

 

[lola33]

hi !
How long have you been trying? and did you take BCP? if you stopped recently, that could be the reason af is late.
Bfn happen even if pregnant too, try again tomorrow, it takes a while sometimes..

 

[Angel022605]

We are not 100% trying. We are letting nature take its course, if it happens it happens if not then it's ok. I've been off BC since Feb this yr. I've always been regular 29/30 days since being off BC. I'm just bummed out. ��

 

[TTCgamer2.0]

When I am very stressed or travelling my ovulation gets delayed. Even knowing I'm about to be going out of town does it.

From your temps and CM I guess it's possible that your body was gearing up to O several times and didn't until later. I see you got EWCM a couple times.

However, it's hard to tell...the temps are a bit erratic and some data is missing so it's hard to say anything for sure.

 

[cdelmar]

when i got off BCP it took almost a year for my cycle to become somewhat normal...my longest cycle was about 57 days!!! i took plenty of hpts during that time. Last year (2nd year off BCP) my cycles were in the low thirties and this year i have been in 28-31 days. Although, last month my cycle was 33 days. Right now I am on CD35!! I have taken 3 hpts in the last week (last one taken yesterday and it was neg )...so i dont know what going on, i dont feel pregnant but im just waiting it out now, could be stressing ttc (thats my take on it).

 

[cdelmar]

Yup, AF showed! Im on CD2, i really think it stress of ttc because this cycle lasted 35 days and I havent seen that number since i got off bcp

 

[Angel022605]

I'm sorry AF hit unfortunately later that day AF got for me too I just finished AF and I'm on CD 5. I'm looking for buddies PM or email me if you want

 

[cdelmar]

I'm sorry AF hit unfortunately later that day AF got for me too I just finished AF and I'm on CD 5. I'm looking for buddies PM or email me if you want

Angel, I started reading tcoyf and realized that stressing ttc prob delayed my o and I probably Oed later than usual. My first full cycle of temping is this new cycle so I didnt figure out 100% when I O'd. Do you temp? The book says the only constant thing is you LP (which I dont know what mine is yet) but if you temp and you see when you oed, you can basically determine when AF will arrive. Im on CD7 today so we are right around the corner from each other on CDs

 

[Angel022605]

I'm sorry AF hit unfortunately later that day AF got for me too I just finished AF and I'm on CD 5. I'm looking for buddies PM or email me if you want

Angel, I started reading tcoyf and realized that stressing ttc prob delayed my o and I probably Oed later than usual. My first full cycle of temping is this new cycle so I didnt figure out 100% when I O'd. Do you temp? The book says the only constant thing is you LP (which I dont know what mine is yet) but if you temp and you see when you oed, you can basically determine when AF will arrive. Im on CD7 today so we are right around the corner from each other on CDs

yes I temp....i am trying to be more accurate this cycle...I hear the LP is always the same length, 14 days, if that is true I Oed late

 

[cdelmar]

How is it or did it turn out Angel?

 

[Angel022605]

I wasn't preg at all :/ I'm currently waiting on ovulation again. Only thing that confuses me is I'm comparing apps on my iPhone and one says I will ovulate on sept
4/5(Kindara)but that will put my cycle at 34 days and I've always had 29/30 days. Another app(FF) says I'm due to ovulate on 8/31 which puts my cycle right at 29 days. I'm thinking I'm gonna trust the second app(FF) because I think my temp will rise soon to confirm it. Wish me luck

 

[cdelmar]

Oh no! Something must have delayed O???? I just started temping and using OPKS to determine when I O, waiting impatiently in the meantime......

Good luck