2013!!!!! January Testers!(140) (40) BFPs! 9 Angels Come find a Buddy today!!!!

[babysaa]

Hi MrsMM24, thank you for starting the January's thread!

If AF doesn't show, I will be testing Jan 2nd.

Happy New Year to you all and wishing you all the very best in 2013, may we all get our BFP this year xoxo

 

[nico82]

Hey ladies, I have been lurking but haven't officially joined the January thread yet. I'm thinking my test day will be right around Jan 13th as of now. I'm thrilled to see BFP's already and I'm with everyone else nico I'm dying for you to test.

AFM- I need some advice ladies. This is my very first cycle of trying iui. I took femara on CD 3-7 and I'm currently waiting to ovulate. My doctor said that I need to go in the day after a positive OPK for insemination. Well because of the holiday season, there are several days the lab is closed, New Years Day being one of them. I took an OPK this afternoon and I'm almost positive that it is going to be positive tomorrow which won't work out for iui. My question is, do you ladies think it would be ok for me to call the doctor tonight and say my positive was today so I can get squeezed in for iui tomorrow. I don't want to waste my money and have a useless iui but I also hate the thought of missing it completely this month. I will post the pictures of my OPK today. I just want to know, what would you do? The first photo is in the time frame still wet and the second photo is after it dried.

I would say your OPK is still too light, but then again "swimmers" can live in your body for a few days, I would call and ask for a professional opinion though. I had a few days of OPK's exactly like yours before I got the real dark indicator, take a look at my photo for reference if you like?
But everyon is different so I would go with your heart sweety

 

[MrsMohr]

I tested 3 days early so I suppose I wouldn't be considered a Jan tester any longer, but figured I would update you all as my name is listed in the first post, here is my results

https://i397.photobucket.com/albums/pp51/MissSapphireEyes/IMAG0022_zps38dc5ab5.jpg

I see your willpower paid off girl, congrats!!!

 

[luna_19]

Hope I agree you could call the clinic explain the situation and see what they say.

Liz is there a reason you aren't taking clomid anymore? It can help produce a better quality egg. Did your hubby have an SA done yet? Maybe you could talk to your doctor about having a hsg done?

 

[nico82]

I tested 3 days early so I suppose I wouldn't be considered a Jan tester any longer, but figured I would update you all as my name is listed in the first post, here is my results

https://i397.photobucket.com/albums/pp51/MissSapphireEyes/IMAG0022_zps38dc5ab5.jpg

I see your willpower paid off girl, congrats!!!

Awww! Thats awesome!

CONGRATULATIONS!!

 

[lizlovelust]

luna, we kinda wanted to do ntnp, I get disapointed either way

 

[Junebugs]

Hey ladies, I have been lurking but haven't officially joined the January thread yet. I'm thinking my test day will be right around Jan 13th as of now. I'm thrilled to see BFP's already and I'm with everyone else nico I'm dying for you to test.

AFM- I need some advice ladies. This is my very first cycle of trying iui. I took femara on CD 3-7 and I'm currently waiting to ovulate. My doctor said that I need to go in the day after a positive OPK for insemination. Well because of the holiday season, there are several days the lab is closed, New Years Day being one of them. I took an OPK this afternoon and I'm almost positive that it is going to be positive tomorrow which won't work out for iui. My question is, do you ladies think it would be ok for me to call the doctor tonight and say my positive was today so I can get squeezed in for iui tomorrow. I don't want to waste my money and have a useless iui but I also hate the thought of missing it completely this month. I will post the pictures of my OPK today. I just want to know, what would you do? The first photo is in the time frame still wet and the second photo is after it dried.

All my OPKs have only ever looked like that when positive! I have never gotten any darker then that

 

[allforthegirl]

hey ladies, waiting to O, I feel like ill never get pregnant

Well my dear I am sorry to hear you having a hard journey but thinking negatively like that, you are right, you won't! If you wake up in the morning think this is going to be the worst day, you will have a really bad day. If you wake in the morning saying today WILL be a good day and just put a smile on you will have a good day! What ever you put out into the universe you will get back. Tenfold! You will get pregnant if you say "I will get pregnant" when you are meant to get pregnant!! Have some faith in yourself. Just may take some figuring it out is all!!

 

[nico82]

I know this is off topic and I apologize...but how do you get your tickers to show in your signature????

I tried lillypie or something and used the HTML version and copy and pasted into my signature but still wouldn't work? Any help??

 

[allforthegirl]

I know this is off topic and I apologize...but how do you get your tickers to show in your signature????

I tried lillypie or something and used the HTML version and copy and pasted into my signature but still wouldn't work? Any help??

You can go to countdowntopregnancy.com, or Lillypie but you have to use the BBcode for it to show up right on here. GL

 

[lorojovanos]

HOPE- I wouldn't do it early, but that's just me. I would call the dr though and maybe email them a picture of your opk and see what they say. They would obviously know better than me...If they are closed new years day, and that would be the day to do it, maybe see if they can get you in tomorrow, as late as possible? Let us know hon...
LIZ- What's with the negativity hon? You were pushing and pushing to be put on Clomid, and you did it for one cycle, and stopped. I do understand the ntnp, but that only works, as far as im concerned, if you put everything away. No opk's no temping, no nothing. When you temp and see a temp drop, you may try and bd as much as possible thinking its o time but especially with pcos and having that confirmed, your cycles are wonky. My opinion hon, after being with you for over a year, is to do one of two things, stop absolutely everything, except having sex with your b/f when you want to, or, have him get the SA done, has he agreed to that yet? And get on your Clomid. Only one cycle isn't enough hon. The fact that that very first cycle you did o and the following cycle, you o'd on your own, is very good, its a good sign for the future.

 

[AmaryllisRed]

Junebugs!!

 

[nico82]

I know this is off topic and I apologize...but how do you get your tickers to show in your signature????

I tried lillypie or something and used the HTML version and copy and pasted into my signature but still wouldn't work? Any help??

You can go to countdowntopregnancy.com, or Lillypie but you have to use the BBcode for it to show up right on here. GL

Oooh your awesome!
Thanks so much!

 

[lizlovelust]

thanks loro, you are amazing

 

[lorojovanos]

I want to see you with a bfp too liz. Seriously. But not to be too blunt, shit or get off the pot. Do everything you possibly can, that includes an attitude change, positive positive positive, or let everything go and just have a *normal* sex life. its been proven, youve proven to yourself, that half in between, just doesnt work well for you hon...

 

[lorojovanos]

I re read that, it seemed mean but it's 100% not my intention. I hope you know me weel enough though LIZ to know that

 

[allforthegirl]

I re read that, it seemed mean but it's 100% not my intention. I hope you know me weel enough though LIZ to know that

I am an outsider and I didn't think that mean at all. Sounds like tough love. And sometimes we all need a little kick in the butt to get ourselves moving in the right direction!

LIZ we all want you to get a BFP!! We also don't want you to be down about it either!! We all have a certain empathy to your situation. I know a woman that has been trying for years and years and she never gave up hope! Even if the last thing they were going to try may not work they had papers in for adoption.... yet that last straw held up and now she is pregnant. You CAN do this!!

 

[luna_19]

I want to see you with a bfp too liz. Seriously. But not to be too blunt, shit or get off the pot. Do everything you possibly can, that includes an attitude change, positive positive positive, or let everything go and just have a *normal* sex life. its been proven, youve proven to yourself, that half in between, just doesnt work well for you hon...

I totally agree! If you're not ready to get all the help there is then that's fine. I would LOVE to relax and have a normal sex life again but we're on a mission

 

[lorojovanos]

I'll share something. For 2 years, we just did the NTNP thing, literally. I knew nothing about checking my cm, ovulation, temping, nothing. We only had sex when we wanted to, 10 days in a row, then nothing for a week if we wanted to. It was fun, there was no worry. Could get up at 7 am to pee and not worry that it ruins my temps. I never peed on any sort of test, and nothing happened. BUT, honestly, it was the happiest I think Matt and I could have been. We both wanted another baby, but it was fun, it was easy, it just was what it is. Now, it's been just over a year, 5 cycles to date of checking cm, doing opk's, researching, losses, temping, clomid, U/S's and B/W, Matt's SA and my HSG in the next few weeks if I'm not pregnant. It is stressful, It does take up a lot of time, and energy but we have decided that if we want to have this baby, come hell or highwater, we will do what we financially, emotionally, and physically can handle. There are days I hate Matt, the thought of having sex with him, just irks me. Some days I don't want to shave my legs, and get in the mood. But at the end of the day, he is my man, hes family, I want to have another babe with him. In the end, if we don't have another one, we can rest assured, that we have done what we can handle to get what we desire. This cycle especially, it's taken me a LONG time to get here, has just been what it is. Look at my missing temps, look at how often we had sex, I took a break from here for almost 2 weeks, I just lived life. We only had sex 3 days before ovulation, I didnt even know o was on the horizon, I literally stopped paying attention to EVERYTHING. It may just be what we needed... I just wanted to put it out there, that I do know the agony that some of you feel, the frustration, the heartache, but giving up, or constantly beating yourself up, or being negative, will get you no where. That is THE ONE thing I know for sure, negativity, will not give us what we're working so hard for!

 

[Cindylou777]

i do believe the next 12 days of my life are going to drag by... praying ever so hard to see those 2 beautiful pink lines on the 11th!!!